Maybe there are more than just these two options, like putting effort into people or things that don’t make you feel lonely, but also don’t make you feel badly about yourself.
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AdamG
I think it would be better to have a couple of good friends, but I don't (other than my wife). I don't bother putting effort into those who are not invested in the friendship.