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Luca
I obviously can't like, not take blame/responsibility for saying these things though because sometimes I'm really rude and blunt, even though I don't do it on purpose. It's just easier said than done to control what comes out of my mouth sometimes. But I will work on it.
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Luca
The worst part is though, the more comfortable I get in a group setting, the less likely I am to filter myself when I have strong opinions or have thoughts that are kind of abrasive if I put them into words. I'm not a rude or mean person, but like I said, I'm taking responsibility and I'll try harder. I can delete/edit posts too if anyone was offended.
Gerontius
Gerontius
I don't know who's offended but have not seen anything offensive in your posts.
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Luca
I think I sometimes just word things poorly and they’re not meant to be as rude as they sound.
UberScout
UberScout
Heh, if you have said something offensive here, I sure haven't seen it yet. I'd say you're doing pretty okay so far.
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Slime_Punk
I feel like I do that a lot, too. Maybe if you're at all like me, it's just that pesky anxiety that I have to live with and most people aren't even noticing the thing you thought might be offensive. In fact, they might be interpreting it all in a much more-positive manner than you even stated it to begin with.
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Slime_Punk
...Although admittedly, I've also gotten people super mad at me before by just saying I like their artwork from 2008 better than the one from 2018 (oddly true story), so I guess there's a reason for it.
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Luca
I think you're right. Sometimes I just feel like I say things that are WAY more blunt than they're intended to be, or I'm too ranty about certain topics. I really don't care if people disagree with me as long as it's not hurting anyone. If it's hurting someone, it might make me a bit cranky and I might say something dumb.
maycontainthunder
maycontainthunder
One of the mistakes I make is to post when triggered. One more thing I have to learn not to do.

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Shaddock
Shaddock
I don´t read all your posts, so I don´t know, but you apologized now the 3rd time (at least). I don´t think that you wrote something inappropiate or I at least not saw anything.

I have to say that your repeated excuses make me more insecure than not doing them. because now after the 3rd time I´m wondering "have she really wrote something inappropriate? why is she apologizing for the 3rd time?"
Shaddock
Shaddock
when you say long enough that you did something wrong, maybe then I think you really did something wrong, but not because I think that, but because you really force that lol.

not negative meant. I know it´s not your purpose. maybe your inner voice is saying that you did something wrong? I heard that there is something called inner voice,
Shaddock
Shaddock
which is there so that kids act right, even when their parents are not there. sometimes people have it when they are adult, but there are techniques to silent that voice. I did that myself in the past lol and it worked.
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