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Luca
They also always play this stupid drinking game where the person who is most likely to do a certain thing or have a certain trait has to drink when it’s mentioned. It always ends up with everyone insulting someone and it’s always me. I don’t even really drink alcohol!
Primrose
Primrose
Could you have them visit but you not drink if you don't want to. I don't drink anymore and people accept it though it took awhile!
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Luca
I already told them I’m not drinking, and I’m not going to let them pressure me because I’m not doing too well physically.
I also asked them not to post videos of me on Instagram or Snapchat when we have parties but I don’t know if they’ll respect that :/
These are my younger friends btw, not the more “adult” ones. My best friend will be 38 in a few weeks and he doesn’t act like this LOL
Forest Cat
Forest Cat
I was going to have a housewarming party when I moved in here. But then I thought, I have gotten everything into place and it looks nice. And the whole house is clean. And then I'll let a bunch of drunk people mess it up the first thing I do? I decided to not have a party
Shaddock
Shaddock
I don´t know why but my feeling says me that these friends are not good for you, but I hope I´m wrong. they should ask your first "do you want such party" instead of saying "we do a party in YOUR home", because the only one who can decide this is you and not them. it looks like they are engross you.
Shaddock
Shaddock
maybe you like them, but you don´t NEED them. even without them your life would be great. so please be careful and say DIRECTLY what you want and not want. real friends accept boundaries, bad friends try to overcross them. you should work on your self-confidence and assertiveness. it looks like you make it relatively easy for others to use you.
maycontainthunder
maycontainthunder
Not a good idea to invite me. I wouldn't touch the alcohol but there wouldn't be much food left!:innocent:
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