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Shaddock
Shaddock
one day: we have world war III, the world is about to sink
next day: everything is fine, we are all happy, my family is the best in the world

well, this does not sound like a functional or healthy family (atmosphere). it sounds total crazy.

like people who think everything is nice, but it isn´t, because they are already to long in the situation and lost their objective perception.
Shaddock
Shaddock
sry I don´t want to worry you, but this sounds not healthy. it sounds like you are not sure how you really feel or your feelings change every second. it sounds like you have no objective view of your situation and that your perception is contorted very strong.

I can distance myself, but I think some people here want to help you, but are maybe worried when they think they can´t reach someone and walk against walls.
Shaddock
Shaddock
I myself not always read everything of everyone, because it would bother me too much if I would do this too much and it would drag me to much into the abyss too. especially when oneself have problems too, you are not that endurant.

and I don´t mean this derogatory but you sometimes sound like you would be high lol : D
Shaddock
Shaddock
I think you should live without this maddog guy. your posts sounds like he is a very bad acquaintance for you and that you are too much dependent to him in a not healthy way. but noone here can you force to you do that, you have to do this on your own. also I don´t know how the situation to find appartments in your area is.
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