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Recent content by Tmontana

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    Advice needed, NT male dating ASD female with PDA subset. Getting ghosted?

    So I sent a message the other day that was nice and short and basically said I'd love to hang out again and don't need any explanations. Will update if they ever respond. Thanks to everyone for their words of advice.
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    Advice needed, NT male dating ASD female with PDA subset. Getting ghosted?

    Lol, I appreciate the compliment but definitely am far from perfect for anyone.
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    Advice needed, NT male dating ASD female with PDA subset. Getting ghosted?

    Thanks. I really do care about her and want to be respectful of her needs as well as clearly communicating mine. If I didn't care as much as I do I would simply move on.
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    Advice needed, NT male dating ASD female with PDA subset. Getting ghosted?

    Ha! Well I have 4 cats (and 2 dogs for that matter) so I get the analogy but I also sometimes just pick my cats up and make them cuddle me even when they don't feel like it lol.
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    Advice needed, NT male dating ASD female with PDA subset. Getting ghosted?

    It makes perfect sense. In my head I was texting less because it was just twice a day as opposed to the dozens we had been sending back and forth but looking back I see it was multiple times a day so it was still too much. Thanks for the perspective.
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    Advice needed, NT male dating ASD female with PDA subset. Getting ghosted?

    Thank you so much to everyone for their replies and advice, it looks like I will just need to be patient. I'm thinking I'll wait another week or more and send 1 message just checking in. If no response then I guess I'll just have to move on. I think some of the things that have made this...
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    Advice needed, NT male dating ASD female with PDA subset. Getting ghosted?

    New to the ASD community so I apologize ahead of time if I'm using the wrong terms on anything I say. So I (neurotypical male) matched on tinder with this girl I will call Vicky. Had a great first date. Went on a 2nd date the very next day that went even better. At the end of the night Vicky...
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