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Recent content by Spoopy

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    My Article on Mixed Aspie/NT Relationships

    I've also now just finished reading it and a couple of things I think you've hit the nail on the head with. 1. Taking an interest in his interests AND having common interests 2. Taking more care for yourself and worrying less about his mood and state of mind 3. ASK about how he's feeling or...
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    My Article on Mixed Aspie/NT Relationships

    Hey! I'm still reading it (very interesting so far!). I just wanted to ask about the interaction with your brother-in-law, did you or your partner explain to your brother-in-law afterwards what your partner's intentions were with the questions about the website? If so, just wondering how your...
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    The most incredible guy I have ever met

    Really, I think it would depend on how long you've been seeing each other. It is a lot easier to not go back to someone when you haven't been together for that long. Also while relationships are "work", there appears to be an incompatibility between you two. If he told you from the start about...
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    What Are Common Annoying Things NTs Do in Relationships?

    That is a good point and I never really thought about it that way. Don't get me wrong, it isn't that I don't think he specifically can't take criticism. I just have a bad habit of never wanting to hurt anyone's feelings, legitimate complaint or not. To his credit, whenever he finally does get...
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    What Are Common Annoying Things NTs Do in Relationships?

    He is but as far as I know, I'm not. The thought has crossed my mind though considering how similar we are. It probably just comes from spending so much time with my older brother growing up (he is an aspie).
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    What Are Common Annoying Things NTs Do in Relationships?

    I hope I'm understanding this topic correctly and won't look like a total idiot. Whenever it seems that my boyfriend is annoyed or has a bad expression, I'll just ask "are you okay?" Or something to that effect and then take his response at face value. Usually it will just be a case of "yeah...
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    NT + AS / AS+AS Relationship stories :)

    I created an account just to comment on this ^_^ My boyfriend is an aspie and I am NT, although I do have diagnosed depression and anxiety. This may sound naive since we are only approaching our 6 month anniversary next week. We met through Tinder and within a couple of messages we were...
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