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Recent content by NT seeking a clue

  1. NT seeking a clue

    Desperately need help and advice on this man

    Thank you Tia Maria. Sorry, I have been in bed sick with the flu this last week (I think it has all got me run down). Yes my work meeting with bosses went fine. They agreed to keep it completely confidential (as I told them if my fear of consequences from him) The female of the couple told...
  2. NT seeking a clue

    Desperately need help and advice on this man

  3. NT seeking a clue

    Desperately need help and advice on this man

    Thank you Guendolen, it's has been an exhausting year since he told me I was going to "see the real me now", and you are absolutely right, the psychologist has told me he sounds like a sociopath. I have been studying this for the last couple of weeks, and it perfectly makes sense. I had never...
  4. NT seeking a clue

    Desperately need help and advice on this man

    Thank you for your help and honesty Greg. Have you actually ever been as "bad" or gone as far as this guy though? And could the email from him be another meltdown? That he regrets?. Though saing that, I have hundreds of emails from the past year and half where he is not very nice in a lot of them.
  5. NT seeking a clue

    Desperately need help and advice on this man

    Thank you also Royinpink.. I love that name :). Your advice, along with everyone else's on here. Makes perfect sense. I amso thankful for the support
  6. NT seeking a clue

    Desperately need help and advice on this man

    Thank you Don Rojo. Can you please explain what you mean by attacking himself? He has told me in the past (before the intimacy) that he has never been in love before. When we we're intimate it looked and felt very much like love, he even exclaimed one night that It was "hard to leave" (my...
  7. NT seeking a clue

    Desperately need help and advice on this man

    Hi Spinning compass and thank you for your reply. No it wasn't really like that at all, as far as the sex went. He pursued me at the other job by telling me how much he cared etc etc and then started calling me, we spoke every day and night, the phone calls were long and after more than a year...
  8. NT seeking a clue

    Desperately need help and advice on this man

    Thank you so much Don Rojo, I will reply properly later because I have to go out now. Can I please ask you if your opinion is even after reading the email from him, do you still think it's possible? I do know that he hates emotion and prides himself on not having any. I'll reply later, thank you...
  9. NT seeking a clue

    Desperately need help and advice on this man

    Thank you for your advice Spinning Compass. He started at the job one month before me and told me there was another position open, and to apply. We worked together at a different company for two months prior to my brain surgery ( he was my new manager), I was off work for four months after...
  10. NT seeking a clue

    Desperately need help and advice on this man

    Lol there probably are, but I don't suppose the actual psychopaths would help. I'm done researching on the topic of someone I thought was innocently struggling through life, who according to my psychologist, has actually preyed on me all along. I'm tired. Thank you anyway
  11. NT seeking a clue

    Desperately need help and advice on this man

    This is a work email I recieved yesterday from him. This makes me think he is definitely setting himself or me up for something. I have been on leave for two weeks and am due back at work on Tuesday. My leave has been marred by him (as usual) and now he is claiming harrasment. I can't believe...
  12. NT seeking a clue

    Desperately need help and advice on this man

    All of the Christian Grey behaviours are what led me to believe this fraud was an Innocent Aspie
  13. NT seeking a clue

    Desperately need help and advice on this man

    Thank you all so much. And for the laughs (kick him in the throat! Lol). I am sorry I haven't been back on here for months, work has been almost as crazy as THAT man. The verbal abuse escalated even further, to the point where I am now in week 5 of consultations with a psychologist. This lady...
  14. NT seeking a clue

    Desperately need help and advice on this man

    You have been very helpful :). Yep that's the way I'm feeling, nothing is good enough daily. An example - He complained about my shower head (as he got a shower in my back bathroom which hadn't been used for a while) and said my soap was s**t (again, the bathroom is sparkling clean but unused as...
  15. NT seeking a clue

    Desperately need help and advice on this man

    Thank you so much for your insight Vanilla. Did the people you believe had both come across as very negative 'hard to please' people due to the combination of two such things?
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