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Recent content by mpoulini

  1. mpoulini

    Hi all! Need your advice, please!

    Yeah... I have told him, I have asked. Got no reply. Literally, nothing. Just awkward smiles and then anxious "got to go". So I didnt ask again, tried to facilitate a decision on his part. I get what you say about attachment styles, I never was the anxious/insecure one, although I guess that's...
  2. mpoulini

    Hi all! Need your advice, please!

    Well as far as I know, his father was very strict and serious, so I imagine not too many hugs there... But his brother, whom I know very well, is a very tender/ sentimental guy. Plus, I have hugged him many times and although he seemed a bit awkward, I am pretty sure it was something he enjoyed...
  3. mpoulini

    Hi all! Need your advice, please!

    You are right. I insisted too much and too long. To my defence I wouldn t be like that with another guy. But he is different, and kind, and always seemed interested "from a distance" in me, going back and forth, and he is special enough to feel safe with him to not give up on him. Later when I...
  4. mpoulini

    Hi all! Need your advice, please!

    First of all, thank you so much for this answer. It really helped me understand a bit. I have a million questions of course, but bottom line is I understand. I was very sad reading it, but i really appreciate it, wish he was able to talk to me like that. Thanks!
  5. mpoulini

    Hi all! Need your advice, please!

    Hi! I am new here, I guess i am an NT girl (well 40year old haha), in love with a 45 year old aspie guy. Well, he is not diagnosed, but I m pretty sure, I am a doctor and it is pretty obvious to me, though it is not to him or his family. I am saying this cause I think it is important, he is the...
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