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    Metalhead replied to the thread AA sucks..
    I agree. I do not want to be stuck here forever.
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    Metalhead replied to the thread AA sucks..
    I believe my aunt deserves the death penalty. Coercing me into degrading sex acts and then telling me I almost murdered her baby in her...
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    Metalhead reacted to Neonatal RRT's post in the thread AA sucks. with
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    Wow! That's messed up. That's a whole different mindset than what I would have.
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    Metalhead reacted to JayLapointe's post in the thread AA sucks. with
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    That is seriously messed up. That isn't making amends. That sounds like retraumatizing the poor individual. If you got abused as a child...
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    Metalhead replied to the thread AA sucks..
    Seriously, I went to a couple of AA speaker meetings where the guys talked about how they made amends to people who raped them when they...
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    I have been back and forth on how I feel about AA and where I'm at now is that I think AA can be useful for some. Particularly those...
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    Not surprising. No telling how many addicts out there truly require professional attention as opposed to the good intentions of...
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    Metalhead replied to the thread AA sucks..
    I got my recovery in addiction centered professional therapy.
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    It might be worth doing some research just to see what you can find in terms of AA's formal explanations of their methodologies, and...
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    Metalhead replied to the thread AA sucks..
    When I mentioned I felt bad for my cousins that my aunt also sexually molested, somebody from AA told me I did not care about my cousins...
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    Metalhead reacted to Judge's post in the thread AA sucks. with
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    I have to admit, as an autistic person I would have a lot of issues with an agenda that fundamentally emphasizes, "You are wrong...
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    Metalhead replied to the thread AA sucks..
    Try telling that to my last sponsor. I am the asshole because I am angry I was sexually abused as a child? I should forgive and let it...
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    Metalhead replied to the thread AA sucks..
    Telling me I have to make amends to people who sexually abused me when I was a child is taking that way too far.
  • Metalhead
    Metalhead posted the thread AA sucks. in Help and Support.
    Seriously, people there telling me that because I am an alcoholic, I am automatically the biggest problem in any given situation...
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    Metalhead updated their status.
    Listening to Down With The Sickness, and I can relate with the rant towards his mother.
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