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Recent content by MedeaD

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    Looking for advice

    Well if you have any advice on how to reach him, I am listening. I wanted to spend the rest of my life with this man.
  2. M

    Looking for advice

    I am not discriminating. I have tried to reach him. It is impossible. He won't even acknowledge me other than in email. This is his house, and I have no choice but to leave. There comes a time when you experience enough cruelty and mental abuse, that you have to give up. And that is where I am...
  3. M

    Looking for advice

    It is defiantly over. His mother has decided to shun me, (yes shun as in turn your back on someone), and if it weren't for the fact that I am still under his roof, he would be doing the same thing. He is practically already shunning me as it is. There is little to no communication now except in...
  4. M

    Is it over completely?

    It appears it is truly over. He is wanting to be friends but that is all. Originally he wanted to treat me like part of the family so I could be part of his sons life. But the other day his mother decided to shun me. I invited her for lunch and she treated me horribly. I was concerned for her...
  5. M

    Is it over completely?

    I think at this point he resolved that the romantic part of our relationship is over. That was never a problem for us either. We always had a wonderful romantic relationship. He already knows all the small little things that make me happy as well, but will not do them in fear of leading me on...
  6. M

    Is it over completely?

    I can see how relationships would be hard for someone that doesn't understand the NT world or be able to experience verbal emotion. Even my Russell has no idea how to interoperate with the human race. He always says he understands computers better than people. I wish I had done research on this...
  7. M

    Trying to save my relationship with my Aspie

    Trying to save my relationship with my Aspie
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  8. M

    Is it over completely?

    Thank you so much Mael, Yesterday (Valentines day) I sent him an Introductory letter to the new RPP (Russell Protection Project) from the IAB and IAG (International Association of Boys and Girls) (Yes he created both those acronyms for our world) It was completely devoid of all emotion, and...
  9. M

    Is it over completely?

    Hello again, So I came up with an idea. I have been reading many of the forums here, doing research, and thanks to some great advice from the few people (Including yourself that answered my post.) I think I might have found a way to reach him. First a bit of background. He is a tech guy, who...
  10. M

    Is it over completely?

    You are right. He took all of the small things and bottled them up on top of the big thing, and then ended it. My heart is broken. And I know I hurt him. I still live there but we are separated and in different rooms. I am hoping with a lot of patience, a lot of understanding, and a lot of work...
  11. M

    Is it over completely?

    I appreciate your advice. I too did the "we are done" last summer when I was going through my hormonal rages. Last year and going through the menopause thing and surgery was very difficult on both of us. I didn't even remember doing it. I know it hurt him, because he held everything in and then...
  12. M

    Is it over completely?

    I am still living in the house just in a different room. The job is flexible so I can go anytime. I think that he leaves relationships because conflict begins and gets progressively worse. and he already has enough of that in other parts of his life that he has no control over. Our conflicts was...
  13. M

    Looking for advice

    Just found this thread. I am a 47 yr old FNT who has been dating a 53 yr man with Asperger's. Recently he ended the relationship after almost 3 years. He said he just no longer sees me as the G/F. We live together, and I have now moved into another room. We have been apart a little over a...
  14. M

    Is it over completely?

    I am learning to have more patience, and I would give anything to get back the best parts of what we had, leaving the conflict behind. You are right, He has not written me off, and he still wants to take care of me in some capacity. It has been over a month now though, and I feel that he might...
  15. M

    Is it over completely?

    Unfortunately I don't think he would be willing to go to couples counseling any longer. According to him it is over. I have moved into another room. He is still willing to cuddle platonically and still wants to "take care" of me the best he can given the circumstances, however is unwilling to...
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