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Recent content by Lucy521

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    Breaking down the "Misunderstandings"

    Thank you for your reassurance. It helps so much having someone understand my experience, my fears, my frustration, etc. I haven't found that anywhere before. Not even in therapy. So, again... thank you. <3
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    Breaking down the "Misunderstandings"

    Suzanne, we tried that before... recording our conversations and listening back. I also noticed that I was rarely the one to cut him off, even tho he'd convinced me otherwise over the last few years. I actually started questioning my own eyes and ears and eventually felt like I was going crazy...
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    Breaking down the "Misunderstandings"

    Thank you!! It's helpful to hear new interpretations of what's taking place from an outside perspective. I'm going to spend the week testing out a new theory, based on what you and Mia have shared. We'll see how it goes...
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    Breaking down the "Misunderstandings"

    Thank you SO MUCH for this explanation!!! You're absolutely right. He is so hard on himself, in silence. He keeps it all bound up in his heart. I know there's so much pain built up inside of him from his childhood. He was never able to shake it or address it and life keeps dealing him the same...
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    Breaking down the "Misunderstandings"

    What I refer to as a "misunderstanding" is this... I say something that is not offensive (based on the context of the situation), but because he misinterprets my words by applying them to a painful insecurity of his, it quickly becomes a misunderstanding on his behalf because he can not seem to...
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    Breaking down the "Misunderstandings"

    Hello... right now I'm really overwhelmed and resentful and frustrated and depressed and worried, and life (as a female Aspie) married to another Aspie (un-diagnosed and in denial) is REALLY complicated. I need to make one thing clear before I go any further... I genuinely love my husband and...
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