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Recent content by Lorelei528

  1. Lorelei528

    Burnout and breakup

    Got it. Ummm. I’m not going to even reference being on the spectrum. Again. Thanks for your help 👍🏻
  2. Lorelei528

    Burnout and breakup

    So your advice is to be patient? And to let him know I am here for him? That’s what I was planning to put it n the last letter I write. Just not sure when to send it. I thought it would be better to wait a couple of months? Honestly I know the probability of it helping at all is pretty much...
  3. Lorelei528

    Burnout and breakup

    Oh yeah. This isn’t that. He was just here in April and when he went home and got paid on the 17th I think that got the ball rolling as far as finance worries and he was afraid to tell me then Sat May 5 I think it was was when he told me on a phone call. I had asked him when he had realized...
  4. Lorelei528

    Burnout and breakup

    Yes. Why? We hang out with each others families. Not sure what you’re alluding to.
  5. Lorelei528

    Burnout and breakup

    We met through a mutual friend.
  6. Lorelei528

    Burnout and breakup

    That’s me. I’m that NT
  7. Lorelei528

    Burnout and breakup

    Should I even hold on to a smidge of hope or just move on and if I hear from him I do and if I don’t I don’t? I’m honestly willing to wait even years if I have to. I just don’t think he’ll ever realize he made that decision in haste. All I can do is try one more time after a bit of time has...
  8. Lorelei528

    Burnout and breakup

    This all makes complete sense to me. I’m really having issues giving up all hope. Every day I try. Heck every hour it’s a struggle. I understand the thinking now having done so much research but yet I still don’t understand idk. Hard to explain. I think the future plans also overwhelmed him...
  9. Lorelei528

    Burnout and breakup

    Hi. Follow up question if you’ll indulge me…Just thinking because i know thought patterns are different. Taking from his last text to me saying twice he’d be in touch with me and that it wasn’t that he didn’t want the relationship just that he didn’t know how to be in it right now and he loved...
  10. Lorelei528

    Burnout and breakup

    My ex husband was a liar and a cheater as well as a gaslighter. This is not at all the same. Believe me you don’t have to lecture me on trust but thanks.
  11. Lorelei528

    Burnout and breakup

    It is tragic and it’s coming off as permanent to me even though his original message said he’d be in touch and was just taking a step back. Once he changed his relationship status though I knew I couldn’t believe what he said in that message.
  12. Lorelei528

    Burnout and breakup

    This started with financial crisis and him realizing he couldn’t afford to come see me again this year. Even though I told him I don’t even have vacation time till the end of the year anyway (new job long story) and I could come there. But I could tell he wanted to be in the financial position...
  13. Lorelei528

    Burnout and breakup

    Nope. But that doesn’t make it any less difficult or painful.
  14. Lorelei528

    Burnout and breakup

    He’s the one in control and I’m not looking for control but thanks for your input 👍🏻
  15. Lorelei528

    Burnout and breakup

    Thanks. I’ve been reading and researching since May 12. That’s why I think he has it. It was actually a friend of mine who read the message he sent and said it sounded like autistic burnout.
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