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Recent content by Lilybell

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    Five Love Languages Quiz

    Hi to all who offered me advice. I appreciated all your help. Sadly, we ended last Monday after his wife, who he forgot to mention, called me. Whether he is autistic or not I'll never know but he definitely seems like a narcissist. He has cheated on her before and now she is sure it's...
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    Hey sorry I didn't realise you had replied. No I don't have autism, but yes I'm pretty certain...

    Hey sorry I didn't realise you had replied. No I don't have autism, but yes I'm pretty certain he has. I'm just struggling with the way I don't seem a priority at times. Sometimes it feels like he doesn't care but others I can see he cares very much. Aww thank you, that's very nice of you to...
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    Need advice. Help please :)

    To say what though?
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    Need advice. Help please :)

    Well he's back from his holiday. Seemed very pleased to see me. We had a lovely night. On his way up on the train he said he wanted to talk to me when he got back, so when we were relaxed I asked what it was. He said 'where do you see us going?' I said that is missed him and had been thinking. I...
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    Need advice. Help please :)

    Thank you for your advice. :-)
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    Need advice. Help please :)

    Not looking for a problem. I was looking for some advice to help me understand and I'm enjoying chatting to all the lovely people on here regardless. I like people and talking :-)
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    Need advice. Help please :)

    Yeah I'm not really concerned with the toothbrushes etc. I'd just like to understand how he thinks more.
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    Need advice. Help please :)

    You sound very loving and caring. I'm sorry your mum felt like she did. I can understand, it's very difficult when you are programmed to think one way. I know he cares, but sometimes it just doesn't seem like it. I wish I knew what he was thinking sometimes. What kind of things should I look...
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    Hey there, thank you. I'm dating someone undiagnosed but showing huge signs. I'm struggling.

    Hey there, thank you. I'm dating someone undiagnosed but showing huge signs. I'm struggling.
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    Need advice. Help please :)

    Hey, Thank you for your advice. Everyone here is so so nice. I'm not sure I understood the square and circle bit, but I'll try. It's nice to hear you think aspie men are loyal and devoted life mates. I think I can see that. Even though he makes silly decisions sometimes, I doubt he'd ever...
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    Need advice. Help please :)

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    Need advice. Help please :)

    So confusing!! :-( Britspeak? Haha
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    Need advice. Help please :)

    I'm not even sure that comes under sarcasm. I really don't know how to explain that one. It's saying something in a jokey way that isn't meant as its intended meaning.
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    Need advice. Help please :)

    Oops!!
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    Need advice. Help please :)

    Oops I forgot you'd take that literally. It was said very softly. Light-hearted and jokey. 'Telling him off' was an exaggerated...oh gosh I don't even know how to explain this one.
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