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Recent content by JamesStevens

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    Thank you for the blog post, today. As promised, I've read it. I always appreciate the POV of an...

    Thank you for the blog post, today. As promised, I've read it. I always appreciate the POV of an Aspie <3
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    1st the introduction, now seeking a platonic Female Aspie for a non-aspie male (me) for help.

    Last night Sunday 12/13//2015 I wrote this-- Please help. I am failing so bad that anything I do or say, especially when I am trying to clarify things to clear the air, ease the stress, anxiety, confusion, misconception, frustration to a minimum.1 Lately I've been taking different approach to...
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    Hello, I am new, and I've come here for help. I need a better understanding.

    Hi Datura! I am working on a new and separate thread for that, I will post the link for it here when it is done <3
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    Hello, I am new, and I've come here for help. I need a better understanding.

    My specific question is to why you would say "Just hope you aren't trying to change people just circumstances <3"? I am wondering if I did anything wrong or wasn't specific enough when I stated how I wanted to be a better person for my girlfriend. I am wondering if there was a better way to...
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    Hello, I am new, and I've come here for help. I need a better understanding.

    Thank you Warmheart. I long to be her safe place. She tells me I am her special person, her favorite person, even after certain meltdowns, she still says that about me. I just don't want her to hurt anymore, I don't want her to feel like she should not be alive, or like she is handicapped...
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    Hello, I am new, and I've come here for help. I need a better understanding.

    Malortie... That is so kind and warm to hear. I never thought I would be greeted by such a handful of very nice and gentle people here. I am a bit emotional lately, but only because this is in regards to someone I am in love with. This would be the same if it were someone really close to me that...
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    Hello, I am new, and I've come here for help. I need a better understanding.

    Hello again, Hedgehog! :) I am not sure I understand... is this an entirely new entry? Is it a form of a response to my previous reply to you? Are you going to reply to it? (If not and you are uncomfortable, it's totally ok not to reply)
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    Hello, I am new, and I've come here for help. I need a better understanding.

    Hi Kestrel!
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    Hello, I am new, and I've come here for help. I need a better understanding.

    Hello Crossbreed! <3 I will need to clarify further because my girlfriend is seeing a psychiatrist and is receiving medication. This doctor of hers is working on his/ her own degree and reports to someone who is qualified. I do know that she does share some very noticeable traits in the female...
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    Hello, I am new, and I've come here for help. I need a better understanding.

    Hi Hedgehog! I may not be the best with words, in to what I am trying to translate from how I feel/ my thoughts. I tried my best to describe that I mainly came here to be a better partner for my girlfriend. Would you be okay and open to questions I have in regards to the "Just hope you aren't...
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    Hello, I am new, and I've come here for help. I need a better understanding.

    Thank you Rocco for the nice and articulate welcome <3
  12. JamesStevens

    Hello, I am new, and I've come here for help. I need a better understanding.

    Hi everyone, My name is James, I live in the U.S. I guess you could say that I am an NT but I really don't know. I decided to create a profile here to seek, and understand from the experts who communicate here. I am romantically involved with someone who has female aspie traits/ characteristics...
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