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    Love it. I just can't do strength training though so I'm not sure if cardio alone is better or worse. I don't need to lose weight, but I really liked how toned krav maga made my body and I really miss it. I'm definitely in the use it or lose it phase right now after 3 months of no krav. :(...
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    I firmly believe you can find evidence for any argument on the internet, but not being a scientist and using my own personal experience with cardio and strength training (because common core loves using personal experience as evidence [/sarcasm] haha). I'm inclined to buy into this idea. Does...
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    I just don't even know what I want to do. I want to do something physical, but my shoulder is still hurting me. Then, I read this article that cardio actually makes you gain fat rather than burn it. I want to do something with my dogs, like get them into agility (I have a Sheltie and an...
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    UGH so I had coffee with him the other day because we agreed that if we are ever going to break things off it should be done face to face and not over the phone. I was surprised he even agreed to meet me, but I guess he was having a bad day at work and needed a break. I asked him how he was...
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    You don't sound reprimanding at all. You sound right. All of it helped. Thank you. I do feel like I need to just get away. There's a lot of negativity here that I can't shake, but I'm massively broke atm. So I am stuck here. But luckily here is San Fran Bay Area so I'm sure the dogs and I...
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    Thank you for clarifying NT and the words about deserving more/ support. I feel bad that I have to hear the same thing a million times from a bunch of people to have it stick. A friend of my was saying, "This is what I'm hearing, 'I'm not worth trying to keep in his life, but I'm flattered...
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    I doubt I will have anything to update any time soon, but if and when things evolve (with or without him) I will let you all know. :) Side note: what does everyone mean when they say NT? Is it referring to the Myer-Briggs personality traits? If so, if it sheds any light on our relationship...
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    Thank you all. I'm pulling away. I'm injured so I can't do my usual stress relief and have been resorting to some bad habits. Namely, that Friday night glass of champagne has turned into many glasses on a nightly basis. I booked an appointment with my therapist to vent in the meanwhile...
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    Also, we have weird things in bed. I enjoy being submissive due to past trauma, and he enjoys being dominant. It stays in bed so it never bothered me. He says it's part of his aspie. That he gets off on my pain. Actual pain. He took things really far on Thursday on a physical and emotion...
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    So.... Against everyone's advice I saw him on Thursday. I needed help with something, and he was the only person besides going in to my doctor that could help. One thing led to another and we did things. After, I expected I should just go but he asked me to stay. It confused me because he...
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    Thank you all for your responses. and sorry for my delay. I have this wretched cold. I’m going to vent more than anything else. It’s pretty clear after talking to everyone what I need to do for him and for me. So feel free to not read my multiparagraph rant haha. He definitely does not...
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    Thank you for your thoughtful reply. I was pretty frantic. I just got off the phone with him when I posted. I guess it's just hard for me to understand the need to withdraw and solve his own problems because I'm so different. When I have a issue, the last thing I do is isolate myself. I...
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    And I'm terrified. He said the meds he is about to go on tomorrow have a high rate of suicide. I asked him how I would know if anything happens. He said I wouldn't. So if he has a bad reaction to the medication and things go south, I wouldn't even know.
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    Hey everyone, I'm new. I've been seeing an Aspie for about 4 months now. I'm about to vent because... I need to. But essentially The guy I was dating just was diagnosed and is pushing me away and I don't know what I am supposed to do because I want to be with him. When we first started...
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