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Recent content by HelpNeededinNYC

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    Recent break-up with Aspie, looking for advice?

    keigan what you said exactly what ive always been scared of... theres nothing i can :(
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    Recent break-up with Aspie, looking for advice?

    hes not really the type of person who just does things or says things not to hurt peoples feelings. he bever has been. ive spent 5 weeks in therapy, dating other people, etc. i dont want him not in my life, and while i appreciate your opinion, im wondering if anyone has any advice on what to...
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    Recent break-up with Aspie, looking for advice?

    Maybe the more practical way for me to approach this is: Here is my backstory and what I've attempted so far. If someone who you felt had hurt you and therefore you no longer had positive feelings for attempted to reach out, but what could they do to change your mind about being friendly with...
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    Recent break-up with Aspie, looking for advice?

    First, Monolith, I'm so sorry if what I said came off as offensive. I just stated it that way as it seemed clearer because I didn't want to state his name. I didn't mean for it to be dehumanizing or anything like that - simply descriptive, like my boyfriend; my love interest, etc. I'm really...
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    Recent break-up with Aspie, looking for advice?

    Aspiegirlfriend thank you for your reply. I am so sorry that happens to you, I remember how similar situations used to happen to me. I didn't plan on reaching out again now, but thought maybe in two months? I'm just so scared when I try in two months, he just still won't want to talk to me. :(...
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    Recent break-up with Aspie, looking for advice?

    Hi all. This is the only place I seem to be able to get real, solid advice for my situation regarding my aspie, so I wanted to update this thread bout what's been going on the past few weeks, and see if there is any new advice or encouragement from you all. The last time my aspie and I spoke...
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    Is it possible to get back with someone?

    Hi there - I know it's been many weeks since you asked this question but I thought I would add an opinion. I'm a NT so if she believes she may be an aspie too I can't speak from that perspective but I can speak from the perspective of a female (who has had a male disappear or leave) and just...
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    Recent break-up with Aspie, looking for advice?

    Hi all. I'm not doing too well, I am very sad and miss him. I've received three very nice private messages on here, two from NT women who related to my situation (one, the situation mirrored mine so much), and one from an Aspie male who said he was in a similar situation with a NT. They all made...
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    Recent break-up with Aspie, looking for advice?

    Spock you are right. It's the unknown that gets to me. I have to remain silent. This time I have no choice. I am glad that he said, a few times, he would reach out when he is done, but it is so disheartening that he said with conviction that he hopes we can be friends but we will not date...
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    Recent break-up with Aspie, looking for advice?

    Monolith you aren't being rude at all. I really appreciate your response. The thing is, he was the one constantly reaching out to me! He was the one constantly texting me, constantly emailing me, and constantly wanting to talk! The last month or so i did perhaps feel a shift however but I...
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    Recent break-up with Aspie, looking for advice?

    I just reread all of your replies... Twice. I feel this is the most informative place for me to gain some perspective as I have mentioned I feel friends, etc don't have an informed view of things (they feel he should behave a "certain way" or its automatically considered "bad"). I have never...
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    Recent break-up with Aspie, looking for advice?

    by the way, as a timeline, this puts us as speaking/seeing each other again in august.
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    Recent break-up with Aspie, looking for advice?

    So I thought I'd update you all on what has happened since I last came to you all for advice. So I did eventually respond to that text he sent me, although I swore I wouldn't on this thread. He sent it on a Friday, and I was hopeful. I held on to it all weekend. And I responded on a Monday...
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    Recent break-up with Aspie, looking for advice?

    Do you think I should say anything to him at all (he sent that text to me Friday) or do you think I should just let it sit and if he ever comes back to talk to me (I'm not sure even) then see what happens? He just was such a different person and so not kind compared to how he normally is with...
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    Recent break-up with Aspie, looking for advice?

    my biggest mistake was not giving him enough space. Not just during this last fight but in general. Anytime we had a little argument, any time he needed it. It's such an easy thing to do that I am kicking myself for not doing it, but I think it's because he didn't make me feel like he actually...
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