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    Please I really need your help regarding breakup

    Heartbreak sucks.
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    Please I really need your help regarding breakup

    Yea it is true. Thank you for all your advices，I do appreciate it~
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    Please I really need your help regarding breakup

    Me neither. I did hope he can get just be himself around me. But when there was conflict between us there had to be someone to change. Right? Because there are rarely two totally compatible people.
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    Please I really need your help regarding breakup

    Yea I understand that. The more hurt I got in relationships，the more intimidate I will be. But I actually wish that I always believe in love and always have the courage to choose love instead of reality.
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    Please I really need your help regarding breakup

    Thanks！But you know it is hard to not compromise when you madly want to make someone stay with you. But I will try!
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    Please I really need your help regarding breakup

    No，tho I am looking forward to that but I will not wait for him to change or come back to me. I respect his choice. I am actually really happy that what he hates is the relationship instead of me. As he said he still cared about me even tho I might not be his girlfriend. I appreciate and respect...
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    Please I really need your help regarding breakup

    ！！！！！！I guess that he thinks the same! We talked yesterday and he tried to make me understand that what he did not want was the relationship instead of me. It seems he distinguish relationship from me very clearly. He said that I might not be his girlfriend did not mean that he didn't love me or...
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    Please I really need your help regarding breakup

    Hey！Thank you! So we talked again yesterday. And he said the main reason that drove him to break up was that he didn't want this relationship anymore. It seems he distinguish relationship from me very clearly. He said that I might not be his girlfriend did not mean that he didn't love me or care...
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    Please I really need your help regarding breakup

    Yea friendship it is! At least we can know each other from new perspectives. He is still uncomfortable to have a video chat yet，let alone meeting with me in person. I told him to tell me when he was ok with it. But yea，I miss him so much，a lot.
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    Please I really need your help regarding breakup

    Yea it seems being friends is the only way now because he is so afraid of being hurt again. If we are friends，both of us can be ourselves without worrying too much. Maybe one day he will find it is actually happy to be close to me and want romantic relationship again. I know it takes time，and...
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    Please I really need your help regarding breakup

    Thank you a lot. He told me that he wished I could always tell him what bothered me because my feelings mattered to him. But as you said I was always overwhelmed by emotions during arguement，so I escaped without thinking that he would worry about me. I actually felt super guilty for hurting him...
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    Please I really need your help regarding breakup

    He said that he was hurting and worried every single time I walked away in silence. So he can't bear to be close to me anymore. I mean…it does not make a lot of sense to me but I don't want to hurt him anymore. Now I am so guilty to leave him alone after arguement，so maybe friend is better than...
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    Please I really need your help regarding breakup

    Thank you so much! I did send him messages today and we talked a lot. The main problem between us was lacking of communication. I always walked away in silence when we argued，leaving him worried and hurt there. He said that was too painful for him. I am really guilty now. I don't want to hurt...
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    Please I really need your help regarding breakup

    Yea I am here just to know more about him. But I do not think there is anything I can do except letting him go now. I am just really sad that I have hurt him so much.
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    Please I really need your help regarding breakup

    I do let him go.
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