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Recent content by Diana11

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    I just meant it was someone else, not you, about the posts on my thread.

    I just meant it was someone else, not you, about the posts on my thread.
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    Oh lol someone else... Thanks for the comments here then :)

    Oh lol someone else... Thanks for the comments here then :)
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    Oh, haha, I didn't know. Thanks for the nice replies to my thread!

    Oh, haha, I didn't know. Thanks for the nice replies to my thread!
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    Super independence

    Totally. He was similar. If we have disagreements, he'd think I hate him, although I was only trying to find a solution to cope better. He only wanted me to be smiling unconditionally, which was too hard for me to do. I couldn't keep smiling but it didn't mean I wanted to leave him or hate him...
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    Super independence

    It's great to hear you talk about this. I can only try to assume how you guys go through the process but can't quite have an accurate assumption unless I actually hear it from you guys. I have a feeling that some of the aspies who have really high status tend to have more difficulties to have...
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    Super independence

    Yea I can't even imagine how it is to go through it. I have a mild depression, which actually started after I met him..., and even that is hard for me to process. I wish I could have been able to be his help but it was over my ability, I think.
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    Super independence

    Haha you are right. I am pretty close to Apie way when it comes to socializing, and I hate small talking, too. And it depends on the person what "growing up" mean. NTs who care about how they look like to others might force aspies and aspie-like NT like me to be able to have small talks and tell...
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    Super independence

    That's a tough one. Sherlock Holmes trying to solve his own problem lol Yea I guess, maybe other people might be aware of him being AS/ADHD but it's whole another thing to be SELF-aware.
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    Super independence

    Thanks for your reply! I understand. One thing, he seemed to have ADHD, too. So that part was what was more obvious to me. If he didn't have ADHD, I probably didn't notice about his AS. He was not able to be on time, not good at making plans and keeping it, unable to keep promises, although he...
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    Super independence

    Oh sorry... We will find someone special very soon!!
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    Thanks!

    Thanks!
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    Super independence

    Wishing you the very best with your loved one!!!
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    Super independence

    Ahhhh sorry I feel you....... Maybe people here can give you some advice on how to cope with her. I should have asked for their advice earlier. In my case, he's already gone. Wish you'll find a solution with her!
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    Super independence

    I understand. I actually liked some of his childishness though. Not all, of course, but I thought it was cute. I am not writing about all his characteristics so I know it might be confusing but there were times I got really hurt by his behaviors and I really doubt it was caused simply by his AS...
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    Super independence

    Sorry if you felt offended by reading my post. I didn't mean to blame his AS traits but if it made you feel offended, I'll delete it. I still miss him but I have to admit that part of me has a mixed feeling. Apart from his AS traits, I do believe he needs grow up more. And I do, too. We were...
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