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Recent content by DebWHNP

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    I thought he was "just too smart" to show emotions

    Thank you. You just shed a light on a curious behavior I saw in him when we first started seeing each other. He would leave in the middle of the night. When he would call the next day, it was like nothing out of the norm happened. He just said that it was too much and he had to leave. I came to...
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    I thought he was "just too smart" to show emotions

    No, he does have times when he displays affection. It is brief and always follows my initiation (which I am seeing is not uncommon in this type of relationship). Sexual intimacy is good, but he withdraws into his own interests quickly. He said that he had no idea that anything was wrong when his...
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    I thought he was "just too smart" to show emotions

    Thank you for taking the time to reply and for helping me understand that my message may have made some feel uncomfortable. That was not my intention. I am trying to (hoping to) gain some insight on if a relationship is possible. I would love to be able to continue to see him. I told him to not...
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    Torn

    Torn
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    I thought he was "just too smart" to show emotions

    I have been seeing a man (long distance) for the past couple of years. It was wonderful to find a man who was non-judgmental and incredibly smart. There was no subject that he was not comfortable and knowledgeable about. I excused his aloofness and lack of the usual displays of affection as...
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