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Recent content by dashbro

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    Can I get him back?

    Oh i feel you. Those we truly love never leave our hearts ❤️ its never too late in life. But probably now its only a fantasy. But i get you.
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    Can I get him back?

    Yes, that im aware of. But the fact that he is aware of what manipulation is, in great detail and is able to identify it and to describe it…. Meanwhile using it himself, is puzzling me.
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    Can I get him back?

    Like the level at which what you explain fits with what ive experienced is unreal
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    Can I get him back?

    Last week he wrote to me to put all the blame of the relationship on me… i felt so guilty. Also, he is higly aware of what manipulation is, as he was getting paranoied that people were manipulating him not so long ago. He calls people out on behavior that dont seems manipulative to most people...
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    Can I get him back?

    Thats is probably the most valuable lesson i learned from being in a relationship with someone on the spectrum
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    Can I get him back?

    You are highly perceptive. I think the learned behavior thing makes much sense with his life history as well. And yes, even though i think people can change, and i honestly believe he could, i think it would require serious work on his side. The next girlfriend is gonna probably have it easier...
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    I appreciate your nuances! i appreciate your message so much. I really do love im a bunch. That must have been so hard for you. I whished I could have given more. Right now im thinking of giving him the appartment we were living in, because its one of the reason why he doesnt want anything to...
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    Can I get him back?

    That totally makes sense! I can appreciate that
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    Can I get him back?

    Well, without context, that seems like it but i would love to explain a bit more the end of our relationship if i could. The only reason why im reacting this way is that there is a lot of resonance from what i experienced after the past few months. I honestly felt emotionally abused. But before...
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    Can I get him back?

    Damn that is soooo validating to hear
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    Can I get him back?

    Hey! I would be curious to know your arguments as to why you think if there is one case of emotional blackmail the other person should be out? I think you were particularly spot on on seeing the emotional blackmail, i left the details out and didnt even mean to present that as such, but there...
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    Can I get him back?

    I think you are totally right, thanks!
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    Can I get him back?

    I didn't see that as emotional blackmail at first but yeah it totally is...
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    Can I get him back?

    Actually, it's funny, he dos have zero context but the fact that you are seeing the emotional blackmail is interesting because there was a lot of that at the end. So weirdly spot on.
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    Can I get him back?

    Yeah it sound like my ex speaking :'(
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