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Recent content by Clander93

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    Shy NT trying to get to know an Aspie! Help!

    I guess my question now is, what should I do next? Should I apologize if I made him uncomfortable? Should I be more specific like the above statements? And how long should I wait before reaching out again? I am always nervous that I am going to come across clingy or annoying if I message him too...
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    Shy NT trying to get to know an Aspie! Help!

    I don’t know if he is aware I know he is an Aspie or not. He mentioned it briefly in a live video he had done which I watched after the fact, so he probably doesn’t realize I watched it. I haven’t mentioned it to him at all because I don’t want him to think I have labeled him as “the boy with...
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    Shy NT trying to get to know an Aspie! Help!

    I am hoping this is the case. I can’t see why he would have let it even go this far and tell his family about me if he wasn’t interested. And from what my friend said he isn’t scared to shut girls down and let them know he’s not interested in them. I just have never felt so drawn to someone so...
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    Advice please

    He sounds more Narcissistic than Aspie. And you sound like your not happy. My ex was like this, and eventually I had to leave because I couldn’t settle for not having him at least try to meet my needs if I was going to coddle him.
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    Shy NT trying to get to know an Aspie! Help!

    He hasn’t said anything wrong, there just hasn’t been much conversation because I don’t want to say anything that is going to make him uncomfortable. Our conversation last night though short was very sweet, and he was asking questions about me like he wanted to know more about me. But then he...
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    Shy NT trying to get to know an Aspie! Help!

    From what I understand based on his previous relationships it’s not an uncommon thing for him. And everyone who knows him told me it’s something he does quite often. He’s also out of town right now so I don’t want to bug him. He knows I am coming to his next show on the 18th which is a really...
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    Shy NT trying to get to know an Aspie! Help!

    Ok, so here it goes... I am just going to tell you my situation and see if anyone has any helpful advice or opinions. My friend introduced me to a guy about a month ago. We have seen each other in person a few times, but they have all been very busy, chaotic social settings with a lot of...
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