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Recent content by cato4797

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    Are we innately incapable of knowing if we are in love or have feelings for someone?

    What about before you're in love, and you're just still dating, in that stage where you think yo have feelings but have not yet reached the point of love.
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    Are we innately incapable of knowing if we are in love or have feelings for someone?

    Well she had lots of anxiety, so she constantly needed reassurance. At one point I thought I was more into her than she was, and then when she caught up tho she needed more and more reassurance. It got to be too much. We also didn't date long enough to be in love - it was more about feelings...
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    Are we innately incapable of knowing if we are in love or have feelings for someone?

    Just to summarize, I guess my question is can anyone relate to extreme difficulty in understanding romantic feelings, especially when under pressure.
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    Are we innately incapable of knowing if we are in love or have feelings for someone?

    Hi. I've posted about this before on another site. I dated a person over the summer, who had BPD. There were specific problems that lead to stuff ending. These are just some of them though. Namely, I had a very hard time understanding how I felt about her — don't get me wrong, I cared about her...
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