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Recent content by Bonnie

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    Super independence

    I have had the same experience. It's almost like he thinks it's easier to start over with someone else than work on the relationship we have been in for 2 years.
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    Second chance in a relation with AS (undiagnosed) man

    Thank you all for your advice. I am trying to move on. About 2 weeks ago a woman contacted me to tell me that she and my boyfriend had been in a relationship, of sorts, for the entire time we were together. That has left me confused, I completely misjudged who he was. I feel manipulated but I...
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    Second chance in a relation with AS (undiagnosed) man

    Thank you all. I find myself extremely attached to him, and his quirky personality for some reason. His innocence about some things made me feel protective of him. I am going to move on. But I will miss him every day.
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    Second chance in a relation with AS (undiagnosed) man

    He seems to be very happily dating someone else. Any communication with me is all about how regretful he feels for treating me badly. How could he have possibly moved on so quickly?
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    Second chance in a relation with AS (undiagnosed) man

    I am confused. He has contacted me but I believe he wanted me to ease his guilt for hurting me. He said he is very happily dating someone else. I doubt he will confide in her about his aspergers. Is it time to give up?
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    Second chance in a relation with AS (undiagnosed) man

    Thank you so very much for your insight. Information from someone who deals with it is so very valuable. I am sure that my emotions and questions about the future added to his stress. I was also going thru some issues of my own with my ex husband and I am sure, now, that was a factor. I wish I...
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    Second chance in a relation with AS (undiagnosed) man

    I am in a similar situation. He has broken up with me several times. I have always managed to reason with him and we reconciled. Except for this time. Can an aspie reply?
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    Hello all

    Hello. I am a 50 year old NT woman in and out of a relationship with a 50 year old divorced Aspie. He is aware he has Aspergers and partly blames that on the breakup of his marriage. I am desperately looking for all of the information and advice I can find. I am hopeful that this is the place I...
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