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    Mixed signals from my ex-Fiance who is aspie....

    I want to be with him but it’s like I can only do this back and forth stuff for so long, it’s going on 9 months and it’s like nothings changed and now that uni has finished maybe his mind will be clear to figure out what he wants but can I keep waiting around? I want a partner and I wish it was...
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    Mixed signals from my ex-Fiance who is aspie....

    hi there, I think his going along with how we are because his testing the waters to actually see if he does want to be with me or not because I feel like if he didn’t want to be with me at all then he would’ve cut the cord a while ago. However It’s the whole, how long can I do this for without...
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    Mixed signals from my ex-Fiance who is aspie....

    hi there, I think I am just holding out hope that he will change his mind and be like Yeap he does want to be with me (don’t know why he proposed to me in the first place and didn’t cut off full contact after the break up and still says he loves me etc and doesn’t want to lose me which tells me...
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    Mixed signals from my ex-Fiance who is aspie....

    hi there, I personally don’t know why he got into a relationship with me, proposed then ended things but doesn’t want to lose me and is fine continuing this “thing” we are doing. He doesn’t know if he wants a relationship and said he doesn’t expect me to wait around until he sorts his crap out...
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    Mixed signals from my ex-Fiance who is aspie....

    Hi there, If it was any other guy I would understand what your saying .... I don't want him to change I just wish he could make his mind up. He says he doesn't know if he wants a relationship or not but said he wants us to continue how we are to help him make the choice (he doesn't expect...
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    Mixed signals from my ex-Fiance who is aspie....

    thats him! He was with his ex for 5 years and was happy just “dating” but they hardly left the house or did anything as he is a homebody but as soon as they started bickering his like nope I’m out, the same with his other relationships. The only thing with us was we didn’t fight but the huge...
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    Mixed signals from my ex-Fiance who is aspie....

    I told him I am happy to do what we are doing now just with one extra visiting day on the weekend and he said he will see as he doesn't make promises to anything (he never has even before he met me) his literally a day by day guy, he mentally can't think a day ahead
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    Mixed signals from my ex-Fiance who is aspie....

    I do want to be with him because I do love him and I know he loves me, its just frustrating when he says he doesn't want to lose me and that he loves me yet he doesn't know if he wants to be in a relationship even though we are basically in a relationship without the title!
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    Mixed signals from my ex-Fiance who is aspie....

    Hi there! I think having it be "titled" makes it mean something more to me unlike him. Eg with the way he thinks because we aren't "official" he doesn't feel "obligated" to contact me whilst if we were official he would (if that makes sense). I think if he decided to see me more during the week...
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    Mixed signals from my ex-Fiance who is aspie....

    Hi there, I am referencing it as being an Aspergers situation as his lack of talking about making it official as he admits he can’t mentally handle the conversation, lack of being able to make up his mind or think ahead? I know his has some commitment because he decides to propose to me? He...
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    Mixed signals from my ex-Fiance who is aspie....

    Hi there Tom, Used as in having the relationship without being committed? He doesn’t force or care if we are intimate or not so I know his not using me for that.
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    Mixed signals from my ex-Fiance who is aspie....

    Hi All, I was wondering if I could get some help (please be kind). My fiance (who was diagnosed with aspergers about 4 years ago, I am 30 and he is 32) ended things 9 months ago very abruptly. He was "masking" the whole year we were together (yes we got engaged relatively quickly because we did...
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    NT extremely confused with how her ASD ex-fiancé is treating her!

    Care to share your thoughts lol
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    NT extremely confused with how her ASD ex-fiancé is treating her!

    He actually used CBT to teach him to suppress his emotions because people used to make him feel bad/sad etc and it would eat at him so CBT pretty much stripped him from feeling emotions pretty much up to an extent so it’s not fun but he likes it this way because he doesn’t get hurt by people! He...
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    NT extremely confused with how her ASD ex-fiancé is treating her!

    I think he just became a deer in headlights and didn’t know how to call off the wedding without ending the relationship! we see each other and communicate via text as he hates phone calls and just taking it day by day.... i’m preparing Myself for the fact that he might not change his mind but...
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