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Recent content by BewilderedPerson

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    I would trade it all

    I let it be known to her I craved intimacy and affection. I’m not one to push for or pressure a woman into sex, don’t really ask for it or discuss it too much. In fact, she was the one discussing sex a lot more than me and brought up sex the last time I saw her and that we would have sex for...
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    I would trade it all

    What would that be? I’m legitimately asking.
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    I would trade it all

    Well, I do collect things. But besides that, I’m not sure what I else I could want. I’m not insecure about how much money I make, never been worried about the kind of car I drive or the kind of place I have. I don’t care if others do better than me as long as I do well, but I always question...
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    I would trade it all

    @paloftoon It’s not like I was dropping hundreds of dollars a crack each date. And no, I’m not one of those men who thinks he can get sex by buying stuff for a woman. Maybe I just treat because I like to treat, because I want to. I believe in chivalry. I wouldn’t say I’ve ever bought a woman...
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    I would trade it all

    Any relationship I’ve had, any woman I’ve gotten past the first date with and almost anybody I’ve ever gone on a date with has been from me messaging them, me putting myself out there to them, not the other way around. I can think of only two women I’ve gone on dates with who messaged me first...
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    Still single

    You still can. You can’t turn back time or get younger, but you can always put yourself out there to someone new and try to present the best version of yourself.
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    I would trade it all

    @Vanden Plastic Maybe you’ve still got a woman you’ve yet to meet who appreciates someone straightforward enough and not game playing. As far as I’m concerned, anyone who’s into games like that or wants someone to play games with them isn’t worth being in a relationship with. I’ll say this...
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    I would trade it all

    I’ll tell you, any woman I want to date/am interested in, I’m interested in long term, and I love kissing/making out whenever possible. I can’t speak for others, but I know I’m interested if I’m doing intimate things.
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    I would trade it all

    @Thinx What is more intimate than sex? I can’t imagine much is, and if a person gives me sex, gives me the other things I talked about, I value that person. It wasn’t performative when I deleted Hinge right before her very eyes when we were next to each other in bed. I even was talking to...
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    I would trade it all

    I mean, I’m moving on, just that it stung, still does sting at times.
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    I would trade it all

    @Vanden Plastic I’d there an age limit to this? Do women grow out of this where I don’t have to pretend in uninterested or flirt with someone else instead who I’m actually interested with? I mean, if I’m spending time and doing intimate things with a woman, I think my interest is implied. I...
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    I would trade it all

    I mean, I guess it is.
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    I would trade it all

    Boy, wouldn’t that be a shame if that were the case? I sure do meet a flaky women then, don’t I? I have a hard time meeting the right one, but no trouble meeting all the wrong ones. My thought process was, I hadn’t had sex since 2016, I hadn’t had oral sex since 2017, and the same woman offered...
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    I would trade it all

    I know she was telling me her pleasures and what she likes. Maybe other people can dump someone not long after having sex. Unless my partner were to do something egregious, I’m going to look to build something with them and stay loyal to them.
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    I would trade it all

    I know it. I know I’m not in it for any chase or excitement. I’m in this for something without any game playing, wanting the real thing. I mean, I did think we had stuff in common and saw some attraction in her. I see both sides. I guess it depends on what bad is - if you mean abusive with...
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