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Recent content by anoldmantoday

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    Whenever I am my true self, I feel embarrassed and ashamed. How do date?

    This is wonderful and so comforting. I am copying this to my notes to re-read it often. Thank you and your psychologist!
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    Whenever I am my true self, I feel embarrassed and ashamed. How do date?

    I'm "on the spectrum" but I am highly functional and have a convincing public persona that takes a lot of energy to maintain. Since my divorce, I have discovered I cannot be in a meaningful relationship and fake who I am. It's not fair to me or my partner. My problem is I am middle-aged but my...
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    Undiagnosed but curious...is it worth pursuing?

    Thank you everyone for the warm welcome. It is encouraging to feel I am on the right track, come what may.
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    Undiagnosed but curious...is it worth pursuing?

    Hi, I'm Patrick. I am 50 and was diagnosed with ADHD in my 30s. I have struggled my entire life with anxiety, depression and hypersensitivity. I figured most of that was due to ADHD, in particular my variety which is poor impulse control. The psychologist at the time said I was in the "mentally...
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