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Recent content by Anime Hair

  1. Anime Hair

    I don't know what to do anymore.

    Back around 2011, I was splitting rent with a gay couple. They had a European friend that visited often. She was very direct and made a number of passes at me, but I froze up and didn't know what to do. She asked me if I like to have a lot of sex at a party, and it went right over my head. Next...
  2. Anime Hair

    I don't know what to do anymore.

    Not so much any more. Getting burned that badly by someone I felt I was stteling for made me pickiest.
  3. Anime Hair

    I don't know what to do anymore.

    And that's your takeaway? This is a special case where I don't have any problem using that word because this is a hateful, narcissistic, manipulative, and abusive individual. But at the same time, I found her unattractive before I knew any of that and it had never even crossed my mind to think...
  4. Anime Hair

    I don't know what to do anymore.

    When I was in college, I met a woman with cerebral palsy who pursued me. Even though she was ugly, I settled because I had no other prospects. What followed was two years of being gaslighted, socially isolated, devalued, and conditioned. As it turns out, the whole reason she pursued me in the...
  5. Anime Hair

    I don't know what to do anymore.

    I'm 40 plus and never had a girlfriend.
  6. Anime Hair

    I don't know what to do anymore.

    My problem with dating apps if that I cannot connect with someone unless it's in person. Even then, I need to get to someone to a certain extent before I even know if I'm seriously attracted her. The last thing I want to do is move across the country for someone I met on a dating app, only to...
  7. Anime Hair

    I don't know what to do anymore.

    I I have been on dating sites and apps hundreds of times, over a period of several years, and have every app under the sun. In all that, I have actually gone on no more than 4 dates, and never went on a second date with anyone. I know from experience that dating apps don't work.
  8. Anime Hair

    I don't know what to do anymore.

    Maybe this is the case wherever you live, but you will not find any women like that anywhere remotely near tge Bible Belt. I have only met a grand total of one single woman in my age group in the past five years. Everywhere I go, every woman I meet is married.
  9. Anime Hair

    I don't know what to do anymore.

    That probably would have worked when I was younger, but not at my age now. Besides, cons are extremely expensive when you factor in travel and hotels. It is not within my means.
  10. Anime Hair

    I don't know what to do anymore.

    Maybe not at this moment, but I have no prospects and I'm only getting older.
  11. Anime Hair

    I don't know what to do anymore.

    No. I just don't want my only sexual experiences to be with old women.
  12. Anime Hair

    I don't know what to do anymore.

    What am I going to have in common with a grandmother? Besides, the thought of losing my virginity to a grandmother just freaks me out.
  13. Anime Hair

    I don't know what to do anymore.

    And my point is that I'm already years past the age when he got married, and I'm still alone with no prospects. I know that people can still meet at any age, but I can longer relate to women my age because of the gaping chasm in life experience between us.
  14. Anime Hair

    I don't know what to do anymore.

    May I ask how old you were when this happened? Did this lead to a relationship, or was it just a hookup? When I was in college, I had a friend that occasionally attempted to flirt with me, but not consistently. We were watching Beverly Hillbillies. There is a scene in which Leah Thompson said...
  15. Anime Hair

    I don't know what to do anymore.

    40 has already come and gone for me and I'm still alone. Also, I am not a Christian and have no interest in a partner who makes that her primary focus in finding a partner.
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