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O gosh. This could be a sort of man male monster trying to swallow up in his greedy clinging craving impersonal grasp, a woman. Given that I have a friend who has had at least 3 very distressing relationships with men, one who exploited and tricked her, obtained bogus consent and created great pain, a sadist, one who did the same in another way. and one who sort of emotionally crucified her via feelings and bodily being. She has had better relationships too, but it is a minefield. She is autistic and doesn.t read people very well. I feel so sad that people so cruelly exploit our vulnerabilities sometimes.