Hi everyone!
First thing to say is that I do not have ASD or aspergers - I've always looked at the symptoms and deduced that that's not me. But a counsellor mentioned it to me again recently and asked whether I thought it was relevant to me, and researching the current literature has got me thinking.
I'm a 49 year old woman. My basic problem is that I've always had social difficulties. I had a lot of friend rejections when I was younger including being called boring and stupid for extended periods of time which I found really traumatic. As a result I've become very introverted and don't say much and my attempts to get friends and social skills back didn't work. In fact the negative reactions from the general group of people who knew me continued until I was about 30.
Basically when I look at the symptoms for aspergers I have about half of them, but not the other half. I think I'm pretty good at understanding people's emotions and I am also conscious of the way I dress and appear. I don't have emotional "meltdowns", at least when I do I it's all internal and I keep it to myself. I'm a bit noise sensitive but nothing beyond normal. I do however "stim" by turning book pages and do weird things with tossing coins. My real difficulty is with social interaction. I sought help for this during my twenties but nothing was really available, and I don't know whether things have changed significantly since. What I'm basically wondering is what is there to be gained by going through the process of getting a diagnosis? Will any of the treatment options available be appropriate for me anyway? If anyone can give advice about this it would be really helpful.
First thing to say is that I do not have ASD or aspergers - I've always looked at the symptoms and deduced that that's not me. But a counsellor mentioned it to me again recently and asked whether I thought it was relevant to me, and researching the current literature has got me thinking.
I'm a 49 year old woman. My basic problem is that I've always had social difficulties. I had a lot of friend rejections when I was younger including being called boring and stupid for extended periods of time which I found really traumatic. As a result I've become very introverted and don't say much and my attempts to get friends and social skills back didn't work. In fact the negative reactions from the general group of people who knew me continued until I was about 30.
Basically when I look at the symptoms for aspergers I have about half of them, but not the other half. I think I'm pretty good at understanding people's emotions and I am also conscious of the way I dress and appear. I don't have emotional "meltdowns", at least when I do I it's all internal and I keep it to myself. I'm a bit noise sensitive but nothing beyond normal. I do however "stim" by turning book pages and do weird things with tossing coins. My real difficulty is with social interaction. I sought help for this during my twenties but nothing was really available, and I don't know whether things have changed significantly since. What I'm basically wondering is what is there to be gained by going through the process of getting a diagnosis? Will any of the treatment options available be appropriate for me anyway? If anyone can give advice about this it would be really helpful.