Dan Dan
Im a dog person!
Ok so I've recently confided in a work mate that I'm autistic. I don't know why I did it. I've kept it secret for so long. I think subconsciously I wanted to see what an average persons reaction would be. Oh what a big mistake I made.
I work in construction which is not a job for the faint hearted loud overcrowded and labour intensive, people shouting, swearing and spitting, brutal name calling and bullying, confrontation and arguing. Basically a living hell for an aspie.
I've been a builder for 11 years now and have learned to live with it. I survive by keeping myself to myself and not really getting involved with anyone. Although there have been a few occasions where I've been targeted but nothing compared with what I've had to deal with recently. Turns out the person who told had a loose tongue because by the end of the week everyone knew. Now I'm called retard Dan by everyone and I mean everyone. Even my labourer is calling me names. And retard dan isn't the only thing that I'm now called. I won't mention what else they call me through fear of offending people.
I wasn't to bothered about it for the first few weeks but it's been around 3 months now and they're starting to break me. I'm trying not to react to their comments because I know a reaction is what they want. They're weak minded ignorant individuals who try to belittle me because they think me having autism as a weakness. But no. It's not my weakness. It's my strength.
I love my job and the work I do. I've got a company vehicle and I've recently been given a big pay rise and i don't want to quit but it's becoming unbearable. I don't know what I should do.
I work in construction which is not a job for the faint hearted loud overcrowded and labour intensive, people shouting, swearing and spitting, brutal name calling and bullying, confrontation and arguing. Basically a living hell for an aspie.
I've been a builder for 11 years now and have learned to live with it. I survive by keeping myself to myself and not really getting involved with anyone. Although there have been a few occasions where I've been targeted but nothing compared with what I've had to deal with recently. Turns out the person who told had a loose tongue because by the end of the week everyone knew. Now I'm called retard Dan by everyone and I mean everyone. Even my labourer is calling me names. And retard dan isn't the only thing that I'm now called. I won't mention what else they call me through fear of offending people.
I wasn't to bothered about it for the first few weeks but it's been around 3 months now and they're starting to break me. I'm trying not to react to their comments because I know a reaction is what they want. They're weak minded ignorant individuals who try to belittle me because they think me having autism as a weakness. But no. It's not my weakness. It's my strength.
I love my job and the work I do. I've got a company vehicle and I've recently been given a big pay rise and i don't want to quit but it's becoming unbearable. I don't know what I should do.