Julie Gross
None Of Your Business
I was wondering if anyone can help me with a few things. I am confused on why people focus on my behavior so closely. I feel they analyze me and what I say. I feel I am being watched. It doesn’t seem fair to me and it is because I am different and they notice or what but I don’t like the feeling. I worked in customer service and it is not just happening with customers. It is also happening with people I talk to.
I don’t think my feelings are matching with my behavior. I have autism. So I was wondering if that is a common thing. I was wondering if other people have the same issue as me.
I feel like talking to people is too hard because all I get from people is “don’t get upset” and I am just trying to get my words out and people are too busy focusing on my actions and not listening to me. I am very frustrated. Sometimes that’s why I don’t talk at all. I don’t see the point. Because people keep getting offended by what I am doing and I am very annoyed by this.
I feel like I can’t do anything without upsetting someone. I don’t even mean to and I am wondering if this is normal.
I am also confused on why someone would say “that is how the world is” in response to me saying that’s why I don’t like talking to people. I initially thought that this person was someone I could talk to about anything and I went into my session with the intention to work on things regarding my emotional behavior and then I was venting and I was expressing my feelings which it is better than holding it in and it got to the point where this person thought I was getting angry when I wasn’t and I was just venting and she seemed to take it to heart and then she said “that is how the world is” after I said this is why I don’t like talking to people because she wouldn’t let me talk and she didn’t understand me.
This is an example of what I am talking about where people are too easily offended by my actions for some reason and I don’t understand why and I didn’t understand her phrase. I wish I could just talk to people without them trying to pick a fight or assume someone is upset when they are trying to deliver a message.
Is there anyone who can help me with this or had this ever happened before with anyone?
I don’t think my feelings are matching with my behavior. I have autism. So I was wondering if that is a common thing. I was wondering if other people have the same issue as me.
I feel like talking to people is too hard because all I get from people is “don’t get upset” and I am just trying to get my words out and people are too busy focusing on my actions and not listening to me. I am very frustrated. Sometimes that’s why I don’t talk at all. I don’t see the point. Because people keep getting offended by what I am doing and I am very annoyed by this.
I feel like I can’t do anything without upsetting someone. I don’t even mean to and I am wondering if this is normal.
I am also confused on why someone would say “that is how the world is” in response to me saying that’s why I don’t like talking to people. I initially thought that this person was someone I could talk to about anything and I went into my session with the intention to work on things regarding my emotional behavior and then I was venting and I was expressing my feelings which it is better than holding it in and it got to the point where this person thought I was getting angry when I wasn’t and I was just venting and she seemed to take it to heart and then she said “that is how the world is” after I said this is why I don’t like talking to people because she wouldn’t let me talk and she didn’t understand me.
This is an example of what I am talking about where people are too easily offended by my actions for some reason and I don’t understand why and I didn’t understand her phrase. I wish I could just talk to people without them trying to pick a fight or assume someone is upset when they are trying to deliver a message.
Is there anyone who can help me with this or had this ever happened before with anyone?