Okay, got it. I don't get how the trick is supposed to work, but your explanation about what it ultimately means is very clear so thank you!
Do you know how the royal we came to be used like that, as a heirarchy trick?
I can't see how the royal we in the quote from the Queen turns into the heirarchy trick -- I can't understand how/if they're related to each other......
My only guess to connect them is maybe it's something like satire? But then how does it work as a heirarchy trick(?) -- what is the boss trying to make people think or feel, what is the boss trying to convince them of? If everybody (except me, I suppose) knows that they actually mean "you" then what is the point? (This last question is a real question, not a rhetorical statement that it must be pointless -- it must have a point of some kind, even if it's archaic or taken for granted or something like that, or else people wouldn't do it.) Is the boss just trying to be funny or witty or.....?
I went looking for articles about the heirarchy trick/sarcastic use and how it came to be, but I haven't had any luck so far. I did find a
nifty article that said the royal we may come from a bygone King asserting that he was speaking for both himself and God and also this bit that further confirms for me that the use of "we" to convey support and teamwork in addressing an issue that really only belongs to one person is actually something people do:
I find it all very strange and curious....