Cashier, ringing up my purchase: How are you doing today?
Me, depending on mood:
1) About how I usually am.
2) Reasonable.
3) (Ignoring their insincere question entirely) Hi.
4) But I've given you no reason to care yet.
5) Yes, Americans do think it's polite to ask complete strangers how they're doing for some odd reason.
Is it just me, or is it us in general? I need a good reason to speak insincere words. I'm not participating in some random stranger's ritual of insincerity. I might resort to dishonesty to protect secrets or escape trouble, but not casually and without purpose. They're asking a fake question (they have no reason to care), expecting a fake answer. You're supposed to say 'good' or 'okay'. If you're depressed or in a bad mood you're just supposed to lie. Nope, not playing that. Anyone else?
Me, depending on mood:
1) About how I usually am.
2) Reasonable.
3) (Ignoring their insincere question entirely) Hi.
4) But I've given you no reason to care yet.
5) Yes, Americans do think it's polite to ask complete strangers how they're doing for some odd reason.
Is it just me, or is it us in general? I need a good reason to speak insincere words. I'm not participating in some random stranger's ritual of insincerity. I might resort to dishonesty to protect secrets or escape trouble, but not casually and without purpose. They're asking a fake question (they have no reason to care), expecting a fake answer. You're supposed to say 'good' or 'okay'. If you're depressed or in a bad mood you're just supposed to lie. Nope, not playing that. Anyone else?
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