matt000333
Well-Known Member
Posted on here before but it has been a long time ago I feel like a complete and utter failure and have learned some things on how to better yourself like fasting no fap etc big into self improvement techniques that alot of people don't do but it has not really helped me achieve anything right now i'm trying to learn Astrology for this year so I feel i'm somewhat smart but it kinda sucks because i'm not no genius seems like you need to be that or have good social skills to really get ahead in life
I'm still waiting on SSI I used to work along time ago jobs were nothing special fast food and Wal Mart but when I was 21 I had a nervous breakdown started me on path to finding out about Depression and Aspergers ever since then I have not worked I tryed Voc rehab last year for Janitor job made it 3 days and court held it against me even though they act like they want you to try and work got denied by most favorable Judge they had which in Missouri is not that high anyway compared to National I am appealing but it is taking along time I think I have very good shot to win as it was obvious to me and my lawyer they were not being fair or even trying to look fair they just took whoevers word helped their case even a counselor who I didn't click with over my current docter
I just got recently denied on my new app you can do two at once when going to federal I'ts not rally a big surprise but I think deep inside even though i'm deeply depressed i'm a optimist so I thought for once after all my bad luck something would go my way now i'm looking at even if everything works out waiting till July 2020 before it is all settled sorry about long post just need to vent to people who understand just at such a crossroads
If I could work somewhere I could manage to stay on earn a living I would be alot easier then dealing with all this crap in my state alot of jobs are not suited well for me anyway I would move but can not do that unless you have money most of my family disowned me after giving it maybe 9 months guess I was too hard to deal with because of my problem's took me a long time to heal from that i'm somewhat healed could care less to talk to any of them now I just want this SSI to be over with so I can move on with my life go and be doing things I want I also have a 9 year old girl going on 10 years old I never get to see and after all the reading I have done probably will not until shes 18 if she even wants anything to do with me after all the brainwashing done on her laws are really messed up for dads sad its that way in 2019
I even been thinking about suicide again just feel so useless no one would apply and wait deal with all the counseling and crap for$770 or whatever it is now not like i'm gonna get rich starts over every time you reapply last note I live with my grandma who has been my best supporter but kinda says alot of bad things about my family that she is shes 72 part time alcoholic who does not think she has a problem because she only gets drunk at bar 3 times a week and does not drink at home she is also really irritable and cusses my calls me lazy even though she thinks I should get my SSI
I admit at times I can be lazy sometimes but I honestly do think alot of it is low self esteem and depression after all I have been though and having to live with someone drunk or sober who is very irritable about almost every little thing shes a definite control freak if you read this entire thing and respond I thank you very much and God bless you
somedays I really do want to do suicide but I feel i'm too much of a coward to go through with it still pondering it though my future does not seem very bright as I hoped it would be when I was younger.
I'm still waiting on SSI I used to work along time ago jobs were nothing special fast food and Wal Mart but when I was 21 I had a nervous breakdown started me on path to finding out about Depression and Aspergers ever since then I have not worked I tryed Voc rehab last year for Janitor job made it 3 days and court held it against me even though they act like they want you to try and work got denied by most favorable Judge they had which in Missouri is not that high anyway compared to National I am appealing but it is taking along time I think I have very good shot to win as it was obvious to me and my lawyer they were not being fair or even trying to look fair they just took whoevers word helped their case even a counselor who I didn't click with over my current docter
I just got recently denied on my new app you can do two at once when going to federal I'ts not rally a big surprise but I think deep inside even though i'm deeply depressed i'm a optimist so I thought for once after all my bad luck something would go my way now i'm looking at even if everything works out waiting till July 2020 before it is all settled sorry about long post just need to vent to people who understand just at such a crossroads
If I could work somewhere I could manage to stay on earn a living I would be alot easier then dealing with all this crap in my state alot of jobs are not suited well for me anyway I would move but can not do that unless you have money most of my family disowned me after giving it maybe 9 months guess I was too hard to deal with because of my problem's took me a long time to heal from that i'm somewhat healed could care less to talk to any of them now I just want this SSI to be over with so I can move on with my life go and be doing things I want I also have a 9 year old girl going on 10 years old I never get to see and after all the reading I have done probably will not until shes 18 if she even wants anything to do with me after all the brainwashing done on her laws are really messed up for dads sad its that way in 2019
I even been thinking about suicide again just feel so useless no one would apply and wait deal with all the counseling and crap for$770 or whatever it is now not like i'm gonna get rich starts over every time you reapply last note I live with my grandma who has been my best supporter but kinda says alot of bad things about my family that she is shes 72 part time alcoholic who does not think she has a problem because she only gets drunk at bar 3 times a week and does not drink at home she is also really irritable and cusses my calls me lazy even though she thinks I should get my SSI
I admit at times I can be lazy sometimes but I honestly do think alot of it is low self esteem and depression after all I have been though and having to live with someone drunk or sober who is very irritable about almost every little thing shes a definite control freak if you read this entire thing and respond I thank you very much and God bless you
somedays I really do want to do suicide but I feel i'm too much of a coward to go through with it still pondering it though my future does not seem very bright as I hoped it would be when I was younger.