Sab
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I noticed that I have trouble prioritizing things. Things that I need to do accumulate in my brain and I easily feel overwhelmed and like my brain is full and have trouble prioritizing certain things over others. The thing is it's not always things that I need to «do» but things that I need to think about, or conversations I need to have. Since I need time to process and need to do it consciously, I often find that things go too fast for me.
It's been coming up a lot in my relationship with my partner. They ask me a question about something and I say that I need to think about it, and then a couple days later they need to have a conversation about something else, on top of small life things that I need to handle it easily accumulates and feels very stressful. Like there are all these things that I need to think about and take decisions or communicate on but can't really keep up.
I started making lists of the things that are in my brain and try to figure out what is most pressing and deal with one thing at a time but it's hard for me to shelf the rest of the stuff in the meantime.
Does anybody else struggle with this? I'm curious if you have any advice or tools that could help. Thanks
It's been coming up a lot in my relationship with my partner. They ask me a question about something and I say that I need to think about it, and then a couple days later they need to have a conversation about something else, on top of small life things that I need to handle it easily accumulates and feels very stressful. Like there are all these things that I need to think about and take decisions or communicate on but can't really keep up.
I started making lists of the things that are in my brain and try to figure out what is most pressing and deal with one thing at a time but it's hard for me to shelf the rest of the stuff in the meantime.
Does anybody else struggle with this? I'm curious if you have any advice or tools that could help. Thanks