Also, I believe that there is more to attraction than just physical appearance. Someone once told me that she was sapiosexual. She told me that meant that she was attracted to people who are intelligent. She informed me that there are other forms of attraction as well. For example, someone who is demisexual becomes attracted to another when an emotional bond has been established.
I found that to be true in my case. I became friends with a woman, and I soon established a connection with her. I then became very attracted to her. After some time, she told me that she would never be able to get into a relationship because she was too unattractive. I tried to explain to her that that was not true. I tried to express my feelings to her, but, unfortunately, I failed. She was very adamant about the way she felt about herself.
To make a long story short, don’t give in because a certain segment of our population likes to stereotype others. Chances are that such people may have their own insecurities. Anyways, keep putting yourself out there to meet women. Probability dictates that the more you interact with women, the more likely you will get into a relationship.
That’s what I’m doing. I started working again not too long, and I found myself isolated and sad as usual. Now, I just say hello to everyone I walk pass by. I am starting to become acquainted with a few people. I am starting to see myself making friends. And who knows? Maybe I will get into a relationship. It is the only logical thing I can think of to get into a relationship. Just forget about other people’s labeling you. If you fall, then get up again and keep going forward.