Jonah
New Member
Hi all,
Nice to be here.
I had a question to ask. I am a woman in her mid 40s. I've read a lot about autism since I found out I was autistic. It seems very common for people to say that they are relieved and that things have improved for them once they got their diagnosis. The opposite has proven to be true for me. I am getting on much worse with my family - they seem to think that the diagnosis means that I am magically better and can deal with life and relationships as if I'm neurotypical. Their words often make me feel like they don't even believe I am autistic. My frustration turns into anger and my anger sometimes turns into rage, which I have been unable to control at times. I am in a downward spiral that started 2 1/2 years ago.
Did anyone else feel like this when they found out?
Thanks
Nice to be here.
I had a question to ask. I am a woman in her mid 40s. I've read a lot about autism since I found out I was autistic. It seems very common for people to say that they are relieved and that things have improved for them once they got their diagnosis. The opposite has proven to be true for me. I am getting on much worse with my family - they seem to think that the diagnosis means that I am magically better and can deal with life and relationships as if I'm neurotypical. Their words often make me feel like they don't even believe I am autistic. My frustration turns into anger and my anger sometimes turns into rage, which I have been unable to control at times. I am in a downward spiral that started 2 1/2 years ago.
Did anyone else feel like this when they found out?
Thanks