Lady Penelope
Well-Known Member
I recently broke up with my partner of almost 10 years. I did not know about aspergers until after we split.
I'm undiagnosed thus far but just started seeing a psyc about getting more info and possible diagnosis.
Aspergers seems to explain a lot of issues I've had throughout my life and, more particular, the issues that led to the ending of my relationship.
I'm wondering whether to contact my ex to explain what i think happened and how aspergers played a part.
He was really upset at the ending of us and i may not have given him an adequate explanation why i was ending it.
Am i being selfish if i tell him? Will it seem as though I'm offering excuses?
Or is it unnecessary as i do not want to rekindle anything?
He's NT btw if that makes a difference.
I'm undiagnosed thus far but just started seeing a psyc about getting more info and possible diagnosis.
Aspergers seems to explain a lot of issues I've had throughout my life and, more particular, the issues that led to the ending of my relationship.
I'm wondering whether to contact my ex to explain what i think happened and how aspergers played a part.
He was really upset at the ending of us and i may not have given him an adequate explanation why i was ending it.
Am i being selfish if i tell him? Will it seem as though I'm offering excuses?
Or is it unnecessary as i do not want to rekindle anything?
He's NT btw if that makes a difference.