Aru
Well-Known Member
Hi everyone!(I hope i posted this in the right area) I've been stuck on this thought for a long time and i've only discussed it with a few others as a lot of people struggle to understand but i'll try explain it, Basically after i got diagnosed i was offered help to deal with the whole going outside and everything but i turned it down because it would make my depression just really horrible, I tried half my life changing and to be more outgoing and make an effort and everything ended in tears and anger, So in the end i turned down the help and also because having always been this way, I mean ever since a kid i was always really quiet and barely spoke to strangers or anyone outside of immediate family, If i did make the change i would be changing who i am as a person and that also upsets me, For some reason i feel like i was meant to be a quieter person so changing any of this would make me someone who i am not, Does that make sense? I know help can offer just bits to help deal with it rather than help it outright but even the thought hurts now after so many bad experiences.
I am stuck because being alone every day is very hard but at the same time i am probably one of the most nicest people you'll ever meet and whenever someone tries to change elements of me i get meltdowns and the works and that used to happen almost every day when i tried to change, I would even go to some appointments crying in a mess and everything and just.. ugh
Is anyone else kind of like this or can understand my thoughts? I don't work or anything and i'm stuck inside 24/7 but this way i down meltdown or anything and i feel safe, Just sometimes i feel like a waste for being this way but i did try for so so many years and literally nothing worked out for me in the end - There is a lot more to it but i hope you can get the idea from this
I am stuck because being alone every day is very hard but at the same time i am probably one of the most nicest people you'll ever meet and whenever someone tries to change elements of me i get meltdowns and the works and that used to happen almost every day when i tried to change, I would even go to some appointments crying in a mess and everything and just.. ugh
Is anyone else kind of like this or can understand my thoughts? I don't work or anything and i'm stuck inside 24/7 but this way i down meltdown or anything and i feel safe, Just sometimes i feel like a waste for being this way but i did try for so so many years and literally nothing worked out for me in the end - There is a lot more to it but i hope you can get the idea from this