First, I want to say that this website is the only reason I am really sane. People out in the world do not understand at all what I and many people on this site need to thrive in this world. We just expect people to give us our dignity but they never will.
Then when we protest, we are the ones in the wrong. As AS people, we are used as a social crutch. We are belittled because we don't know how to respond to their cliché, glib responses. Not only that, but they will calmly insult you openly or behind your back and it helps them socially...
It is rewarded when someone picks on someone different from them, hence the social crutch. We are just a stepladder, for NT people to step on our back to get to higher social and occupational graces. You are nothing more than a prop to people...This will never change, I know that. I just want to tell everyone that I know what you're going through.
My wife...she is decent towards me, still not how I would like to be treated but passable when we are alone together. When she is out with her friends and I happen to be there she will treat me like I don't understand anything. She basically takes my dignity and wipes her feet on it. She affords me no dignity. and then when I get ticked off, Oh, I did nothing wrong. She will say...like she did nothing wrong. I am a social crutch to these people.
If I leave her I would have to pay 500/month to live in a college flop house with bedbugs. It is either stay with my wife or be homeless...I've done that before and It is so, so gross. I don't know what to do.
Then when we protest, we are the ones in the wrong. As AS people, we are used as a social crutch. We are belittled because we don't know how to respond to their cliché, glib responses. Not only that, but they will calmly insult you openly or behind your back and it helps them socially...
It is rewarded when someone picks on someone different from them, hence the social crutch. We are just a stepladder, for NT people to step on our back to get to higher social and occupational graces. You are nothing more than a prop to people...This will never change, I know that. I just want to tell everyone that I know what you're going through.
My wife...she is decent towards me, still not how I would like to be treated but passable when we are alone together. When she is out with her friends and I happen to be there she will treat me like I don't understand anything. She basically takes my dignity and wipes her feet on it. She affords me no dignity. and then when I get ticked off, Oh, I did nothing wrong. She will say...like she did nothing wrong. I am a social crutch to these people.
If I leave her I would have to pay 500/month to live in a college flop house with bedbugs. It is either stay with my wife or be homeless...I've done that before and It is so, so gross. I don't know what to do.
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