I feel so overwhelmed in everyday life, mainly because of how much I struggle with what I consider to be stupid things. I will preface my post by saying that I have multiple issues, so it's difficult to know whether it's due to GAD, ADHD, ASD, or OCD (or a combination of them). I don't know how to explain it, but I guess the main problem is inflexibility or rigidity if that makes sense. The easiest way to describe this is by giving various examples:
1. Someone once touched my work chair, and I couldn't focus for the entire day. I was freaking about it not being set how I previously had it. I know that it doesn't matter, but I just can't deal with it. I had a similar situation after a mechanic working on my car adjusted my seat. I don't know why he felt the need to touch it, and it made me really stressed out.
2. I can't change anything with my wallet or how it's arranged (or move everything to a new wallet).
3. I generally don't like to move things from where they are positioned. This could refer to physical items or something like icons on my computer desktop.
4. I often don't want to add contacts to my phone, even though it would make my life easier.
5. Of all the clothing that I have, I somehow decided that I can only wear 3 or 4 outfits (although this may relate more to my other issue mentioned below). I refuse to wear anything else, so I'm constantly washing clothes. I can't intelligently explain my reasoning for it.
I also have an obsession with what I would call "newness." I don't like any of my possessions showing wear, so I don't use most of what I have. An example would be my tools. I've had times where I've borrowed a screwdriver from my dad, because I don't want to mess up my own. I know that it makes absolutely no sense. I also wear old shoes, because I don't want to mess up the new ones that I have. My family is always yelling at me for this. My sneakers are ripped, old, and don't look very nice.
Sorry for rambling. It's just very difficult to live a meaningful, productive life when I'm so preoccupied with what most people would consider nonsense. Can anyone relate at all, and if so, have you found ways to deal with this? I appreciate any input.
1. Someone once touched my work chair, and I couldn't focus for the entire day. I was freaking about it not being set how I previously had it. I know that it doesn't matter, but I just can't deal with it. I had a similar situation after a mechanic working on my car adjusted my seat. I don't know why he felt the need to touch it, and it made me really stressed out.
2. I can't change anything with my wallet or how it's arranged (or move everything to a new wallet).
3. I generally don't like to move things from where they are positioned. This could refer to physical items or something like icons on my computer desktop.
4. I often don't want to add contacts to my phone, even though it would make my life easier.
5. Of all the clothing that I have, I somehow decided that I can only wear 3 or 4 outfits (although this may relate more to my other issue mentioned below). I refuse to wear anything else, so I'm constantly washing clothes. I can't intelligently explain my reasoning for it.
I also have an obsession with what I would call "newness." I don't like any of my possessions showing wear, so I don't use most of what I have. An example would be my tools. I've had times where I've borrowed a screwdriver from my dad, because I don't want to mess up my own. I know that it makes absolutely no sense. I also wear old shoes, because I don't want to mess up the new ones that I have. My family is always yelling at me for this. My sneakers are ripped, old, and don't look very nice.
Sorry for rambling. It's just very difficult to live a meaningful, productive life when I'm so preoccupied with what most people would consider nonsense. Can anyone relate at all, and if so, have you found ways to deal with this? I appreciate any input.