I dated a person 4 times. We have quite a bit in common-openness to food, board games, video games maybe, interactive fiction video games, escape rooms.
We haven't done anything physical- not even kissing. Face touching at the most. I mentioned it on our 4th date and that I understood we haven't always been in situations to engage physically. It didn't seem to be a big deal with him. He said he was still interested but wasn't sure about things. I told him I was still interested to, but that I'd start looking around.
He "doesn't seem to know" what he wants now on his profile. I think he wanted ltr initially in general. I asked him about fwb and he said it was "forward" of me and that he wanted to meet with me after he was done dealing with deadlines and work. Feels like he's afraid to hurt and to say "no" directly.
While I don't feel he's lying about him being so busy, it feels kind of like it's a cover too.
Should I just unmatch him on the app at this point, but keep in touch with him as a friend? I'm not sure.
His lack of initiation and the lack of physicality for me at this point is very unsexy for me.
But I do feel comfortable with him as a good, platonic friend, and he has indicated the same several times.
We haven't done anything physical- not even kissing. Face touching at the most. I mentioned it on our 4th date and that I understood we haven't always been in situations to engage physically. It didn't seem to be a big deal with him. He said he was still interested but wasn't sure about things. I told him I was still interested to, but that I'd start looking around.
He "doesn't seem to know" what he wants now on his profile. I think he wanted ltr initially in general. I asked him about fwb and he said it was "forward" of me and that he wanted to meet with me after he was done dealing with deadlines and work. Feels like he's afraid to hurt and to say "no" directly.
While I don't feel he's lying about him being so busy, it feels kind of like it's a cover too.
Should I just unmatch him on the app at this point, but keep in touch with him as a friend? I'm not sure.
His lack of initiation and the lack of physicality for me at this point is very unsexy for me.
But I do feel comfortable with him as a good, platonic friend, and he has indicated the same several times.
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