turpentine
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In September I started dating a girl I've been friends with for a while. Things are going well and I'm thinking of asking her to officially be my girlfriend, however I'm not sure whether i should tell her about my diagnosis of Asperger first.
Some context: I was only diagnosed at the end of November and I'm not yet comfortable with the diagnosis or come to terms with it. The diagnostic process started around a year ago and I never mentioned anything about it to her. I know that I would want someone to tell me before getting into a serious relationship, but because the diagnosis is so new I don't feel comfortable talking about it.
I think she will probably be OK with it, but I'm still afraid she might change her mind about me. I know she also has some problems she hasn't discussed with me and I'm afraid of oversharing and scaring her off. Any thoughts would be appreciated.
Some context: I was only diagnosed at the end of November and I'm not yet comfortable with the diagnosis or come to terms with it. The diagnostic process started around a year ago and I never mentioned anything about it to her. I know that I would want someone to tell me before getting into a serious relationship, but because the diagnosis is so new I don't feel comfortable talking about it.
I think she will probably be OK with it, but I'm still afraid she might change her mind about me. I know she also has some problems she hasn't discussed with me and I'm afraid of oversharing and scaring her off. Any thoughts would be appreciated.