Starryeyes18
New Member
Hi, I've just joined this site out of desperation to understand more about how you lovely aspie's deal with relationships. My husband and I have been together 9 years, we are married and have a 15 month son and another baby on the way.
Things have been difficult since our son arrived and he has regular (2/3 monthly) meltdowns when he has to leave the house, but usually throws something or hits or kicks something before he goes (never me or son).
Our marriage and family feels as though its completely ruined and hes now moved out to his dads to live for sometime apart. He wants sometime to focus on himself and the children and wants us to be friends and see if our 'spark comes back'. Whilst I think time apart will do us good, we both keep breaking down in tears whenever we see each-other and I can see in his eyes and feel in his hugs that he still loves me very much and does not want things to be over.
I'm currently feeling very scared that he hasn't thought to contact me for 2 days. I'm thinking how can we be friends and rebuild our marriage if he doesn't even think to talk to me? I'm so scared of loosing him, I just want to help and understand more.
Things have been difficult since our son arrived and he has regular (2/3 monthly) meltdowns when he has to leave the house, but usually throws something or hits or kicks something before he goes (never me or son).
Our marriage and family feels as though its completely ruined and hes now moved out to his dads to live for sometime apart. He wants sometime to focus on himself and the children and wants us to be friends and see if our 'spark comes back'. Whilst I think time apart will do us good, we both keep breaking down in tears whenever we see each-other and I can see in his eyes and feel in his hugs that he still loves me very much and does not want things to be over.
I'm currently feeling very scared that he hasn't thought to contact me for 2 days. I'm thinking how can we be friends and rebuild our marriage if he doesn't even think to talk to me? I'm so scared of loosing him, I just want to help and understand more.