Brink4ce
Active Member
Hello, all.
My son is 3, and his doctor suspects he may be on the autism spectrum. He is extremely intelligent with no major developmental delays.
If any parents have experience with high-functioning autism in this age group, I'm wondering what behaviors might be obvious warning signs for 3 year olds.
Here is my son's suspicious behaviour:
-He is pretty clumsy...walks somewhat awkwardly compared to his peers but not drastically.
-He throws MAJOR "tantrums" and can become aggressive towards others and himself as well as being generally destructive of things.
-He tends to be very intent and focused on interests and not much else.
-He will repeat the same thing over and over again, not in a frantic way but just out of excitement.
-He is pretty picky about clothes, insists on sweatpants.
-He likes giving kisses but isn't really enthusiastic about getting kisses.
-He gets in these hyperactive modes and no corrective parenting strategies or redirection works to calm him down.
-He likes to have things go the way he knows them to go and is insistent on it.
-He is very intelligent and imaginative in building structures and making objects into what he wants them to be.
-When building blocks, he tends to basically make a wall or a tower and to knock it down before the last block is used. He'll do this repetitively and for an oddly long time.
-He doesn't really make eye contact as is typical. He usually looks right beside the person he's talking to, occasionally glancing at them.
-He is doing okay in daycare, but he doesn't really talk about the other boys and girls: he talks about things, like the toys. When I drop him off, he doesn't go straight to interacting with the other children. The one time I saw him do this, he went to investigate and look at a baby... He'll say hey to his teacher, then go straight to his favorite toy.
My son is 3, and his doctor suspects he may be on the autism spectrum. He is extremely intelligent with no major developmental delays.
If any parents have experience with high-functioning autism in this age group, I'm wondering what behaviors might be obvious warning signs for 3 year olds.
Here is my son's suspicious behaviour:
-He is pretty clumsy...walks somewhat awkwardly compared to his peers but not drastically.
-He throws MAJOR "tantrums" and can become aggressive towards others and himself as well as being generally destructive of things.
-He tends to be very intent and focused on interests and not much else.
-He will repeat the same thing over and over again, not in a frantic way but just out of excitement.
-He is pretty picky about clothes, insists on sweatpants.
-He likes giving kisses but isn't really enthusiastic about getting kisses.
-He gets in these hyperactive modes and no corrective parenting strategies or redirection works to calm him down.
-He likes to have things go the way he knows them to go and is insistent on it.
-He is very intelligent and imaginative in building structures and making objects into what he wants them to be.
-When building blocks, he tends to basically make a wall or a tower and to knock it down before the last block is used. He'll do this repetitively and for an oddly long time.
-He doesn't really make eye contact as is typical. He usually looks right beside the person he's talking to, occasionally glancing at them.
-He is doing okay in daycare, but he doesn't really talk about the other boys and girls: he talks about things, like the toys. When I drop him off, he doesn't go straight to interacting with the other children. The one time I saw him do this, he went to investigate and look at a baby... He'll say hey to his teacher, then go straight to his favorite toy.