Caelix3
Well-Known Member
I tend to have problems maintaining a relationship. It either turns out to be toxic or the other person is too sexual. I identify as Panromantic asexual. I find it hard to have a relationship when most people are sexual and want sex. While I don't. It also doesn't help that my autism, causes me to be bad at socializing.
My ex always wanted to sexually roleplay. I did it at first for her, but eventually I got way too uncomfortable and annoyed with it. When I told her I couldn't do it because it made me uncomfortable, she said: "I'm sorry but I need it.". So I broke up with her. Later on, I found out that she has an addiction to sex, which I did not know at the time. This was a long distance relationship. We lived in the same state, but too far away from each other in terms of location.
I felt invalidated because she was like "I'm sorry but I need it."
I feel like if you need sex every single day, then you have a problem. I was not willing to do something I wasn't comfortable doing, just to please my partner. I'm sorry I'm just really frustrated and annoyed. It is lonely living in a world which is sexual, while I am not.
I feel like I shouldn't have to do something, I'm not comfortable doing. So as you can see, it is hard for me to find a relationship that doesn't involve sex or anything sexual.
My ex always wanted to sexually roleplay. I did it at first for her, but eventually I got way too uncomfortable and annoyed with it. When I told her I couldn't do it because it made me uncomfortable, she said: "I'm sorry but I need it.". So I broke up with her. Later on, I found out that she has an addiction to sex, which I did not know at the time. This was a long distance relationship. We lived in the same state, but too far away from each other in terms of location.
I felt invalidated because she was like "I'm sorry but I need it."
I feel like if you need sex every single day, then you have a problem. I was not willing to do something I wasn't comfortable doing, just to please my partner. I'm sorry I'm just really frustrated and annoyed. It is lonely living in a world which is sexual, while I am not.
I feel like I shouldn't have to do something, I'm not comfortable doing. So as you can see, it is hard for me to find a relationship that doesn't involve sex or anything sexual.