As someone with a history documented more in the realm of mental illness, it's sometimes hard for me to dissect the point where symptoms of mood disorder (among others) end and neurodivergence potentially begins.
Some background: I've stated before that I don't have an official diagnosis for autism. My former therapist didn't believe I have it as I have high functioning social skills; as draining as it is I am overly alert and empathetic to other people and this is useful in "matching" people's wavelengths and verbal rhythms. I can see how this would be dissonant to the usual factors in autism.
I want to save general sensory issues for another time because my biggest issue lately is this overwhelming disconnect from conversation and verbalizing thought. This happens when I'm socially exhausted or don't have time to "put on the mask" for communicating. If I don't know hours in advance about a social or work obligation I freak out into meltdown mode because it feels impossible to summon up that version of myself on short notice.
The exhausted alternative I end up with is feeling like I'm literally trying to translate alien code with every verbal auditory communication. Trying to understand people speaking to me feels like a confusing chore; I've taken second language classes before and I think the feeling is close to hearing audio of the target language that you're supposed to keep up with but can't quite understand. It's scrambled and foreign. And more unnerving is when I feel like my thoughts are blocked or paralyzed, wanting to communicate something but feeling stuck not just in my head, but in a bubble that can't even internally process what is happening. It's especially painful when I want very badly to spend time with my boyfriend at the end of the day, but can't seem to muster up any words other than scripted replies.
I want to stress this isn't a constant for me. I really enjoy and resonate with written language, and it's very easy for me to process compared to audio of any kind. And when I'm primed for conversation, I think I manage ok, and although it is weirdly uncomfortable that discomfort is outweighed by the benefit of sharing ideas, so it's easier to cope with.
However it's easy to see a connection between processing issues in autism and processing issues as a result of depression or other problems. Then again I am a believer in holistic thinking and many problems are not just comorbid but fluidly linked.
Always welcome to thoughts if you care to do so.
Some background: I've stated before that I don't have an official diagnosis for autism. My former therapist didn't believe I have it as I have high functioning social skills; as draining as it is I am overly alert and empathetic to other people and this is useful in "matching" people's wavelengths and verbal rhythms. I can see how this would be dissonant to the usual factors in autism.
I want to save general sensory issues for another time because my biggest issue lately is this overwhelming disconnect from conversation and verbalizing thought. This happens when I'm socially exhausted or don't have time to "put on the mask" for communicating. If I don't know hours in advance about a social or work obligation I freak out into meltdown mode because it feels impossible to summon up that version of myself on short notice.
The exhausted alternative I end up with is feeling like I'm literally trying to translate alien code with every verbal auditory communication. Trying to understand people speaking to me feels like a confusing chore; I've taken second language classes before and I think the feeling is close to hearing audio of the target language that you're supposed to keep up with but can't quite understand. It's scrambled and foreign. And more unnerving is when I feel like my thoughts are blocked or paralyzed, wanting to communicate something but feeling stuck not just in my head, but in a bubble that can't even internally process what is happening. It's especially painful when I want very badly to spend time with my boyfriend at the end of the day, but can't seem to muster up any words other than scripted replies.
I want to stress this isn't a constant for me. I really enjoy and resonate with written language, and it's very easy for me to process compared to audio of any kind. And when I'm primed for conversation, I think I manage ok, and although it is weirdly uncomfortable that discomfort is outweighed by the benefit of sharing ideas, so it's easier to cope with.
However it's easy to see a connection between processing issues in autism and processing issues as a result of depression or other problems. Then again I am a believer in holistic thinking and many problems are not just comorbid but fluidly linked.
Always welcome to thoughts if you care to do so.