Noba Loney
Active Member
Here's a type of scenario that has happened often enough to be a pattern. Let's say in online communication - it can happen face to face as well but is somewhat easier to manage.
1.
Someone proposes a theory or a solution to a problem.
2.
I see a possible flaw in the theory or solution and say something pointing to this. Because a) that's what I see, b) I'm interested in the accuracy and truth of the thing and c) if you want something that works it's obviously useful to know about problems with the current proposed version.
3.
The original poster at this point goes wildly off-track and pretty soon suggests I have some nefarious reason for wanting block their proposal or... something. The response makes "no sense", just, what the? Where the blazes did that come from? It's based on literally no evidence. Online all the actual words are there to see, but invariably that's not good enough.
Obviously there's some psychological / cognitive thing going on with this, which is why I put "no reason" in inverted commas. I won't say it's a thing that happens mainly with "NTs" but it's probably fair to say that it would be mostly non-autistic people.
I suppose it could be that being interested in accuracy and truth without a political end in mind is just completely incomprehensible to certain people and they have to imagine some wild theory. And no doubt there's sometimes an element of them not wanting to appear dumb or wrong. But I don't think that fully explains it.
Is any of this a recognised phenomenon? Can you relate? Tell me what you think / know.
Trouble shooting and finding solutions to technical problems is just something I do. I'm very good at it in some ways because I quickly take in and weigh a lot of available information and correlate it with what I know. This is often like a useless super power because the difficulty is then in communicating this reasoning, which can look almost like intuition.
I used to work technical support but it drove me crazy and I definitely ended up with burn-out if not PTSD from the work environment (open plan, lots of conversations going on) and sheer volume of phone calls. Also the communication itself with non-technical people was incredibly wearing. I had next to no idea about autism at that point, Aspergers was barely a thing, but of course it makes more sense now.
1.
Someone proposes a theory or a solution to a problem.
2.
I see a possible flaw in the theory or solution and say something pointing to this. Because a) that's what I see, b) I'm interested in the accuracy and truth of the thing and c) if you want something that works it's obviously useful to know about problems with the current proposed version.
3.
The original poster at this point goes wildly off-track and pretty soon suggests I have some nefarious reason for wanting block their proposal or... something. The response makes "no sense", just, what the? Where the blazes did that come from? It's based on literally no evidence. Online all the actual words are there to see, but invariably that's not good enough.
Obviously there's some psychological / cognitive thing going on with this, which is why I put "no reason" in inverted commas. I won't say it's a thing that happens mainly with "NTs" but it's probably fair to say that it would be mostly non-autistic people.
I suppose it could be that being interested in accuracy and truth without a political end in mind is just completely incomprehensible to certain people and they have to imagine some wild theory. And no doubt there's sometimes an element of them not wanting to appear dumb or wrong. But I don't think that fully explains it.
Is any of this a recognised phenomenon? Can you relate? Tell me what you think / know.
Trouble shooting and finding solutions to technical problems is just something I do. I'm very good at it in some ways because I quickly take in and weigh a lot of available information and correlate it with what I know. This is often like a useless super power because the difficulty is then in communicating this reasoning, which can look almost like intuition.
I used to work technical support but it drove me crazy and I definitely ended up with burn-out if not PTSD from the work environment (open plan, lots of conversations going on) and sheer volume of phone calls. Also the communication itself with non-technical people was incredibly wearing. I had next to no idea about autism at that point, Aspergers was barely a thing, but of course it makes more sense now.