I've been basically a single person my entire life, I'm a loner but a loner in public...
The last two Thursday's I've gone to music performances at a local cafe... Last week I spent part of the evening with a friend, then he left early... As I sat there on my own I noted that most of the small crowd were there to support their friend who was the musician... At one point he "sort of" picked on me, it didn't bother me really, but he had a sort of conversation with me
This week, I went again, there were about 10 people there, I was on my own again... By now the staff know me quite well though, that guy who comes in on his own... Everyone but me was there to support one of the musicians, in a way I felt out of place, but I'll still go back... I find it interesting to check out a musician I've never heard before, even if I don't know them...
Just the experience of a loner in public The only awkward moment was when they took a break and I had no one to interact with, while everyone else chatted...
The last two Thursday's I've gone to music performances at a local cafe... Last week I spent part of the evening with a friend, then he left early... As I sat there on my own I noted that most of the small crowd were there to support their friend who was the musician... At one point he "sort of" picked on me, it didn't bother me really, but he had a sort of conversation with me
This week, I went again, there were about 10 people there, I was on my own again... By now the staff know me quite well though, that guy who comes in on his own... Everyone but me was there to support one of the musicians, in a way I felt out of place, but I'll still go back... I find it interesting to check out a musician I've never heard before, even if I don't know them...
Just the experience of a loner in public The only awkward moment was when they took a break and I had no one to interact with, while everyone else chatted...