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Did you ever meet someone, and get totally overwhelmed, only to wake up and find that they thought you liked them because they were
So, to be sure I'm getting this right, the situation is this: you are in a relationship with someone, you are with them because you are generally attracted to them as a "complete individual" (I'm not sure what this means, are there no particular things you can pinpoint about them which makes them particularly attractive to you?), but they incorrectly think you like them due to a specific thing(s)? Have you discussed this with them and corrected their incorrect assumptions?l really care for the person, and l don't care what he has or doesn't have. But sometimes being on the spectrum, l am unable to read clues of how people perceive themselves in relation to others. l trust my judgement but it seems he second guesses my involvement with him and inserts his reasoning instead of just 100% attraction of the complete individual. Such is life. Maybe somebody has a prior experience.
Yeah, I've tried reading this over and over since it's been posted and every time I do, I get even more confused each time; it's not quite coherent enough for me to understand
So, to be sure I'm getting this right, the situation is this: you are in a relationship with someone, you are with them because you are generally attracted to them as a "complete individual" (I'm not sure what this means, are there no particular things you can pinpoint about them which makes them particularly attractive to you?), but they incorrectly think you like them due to a specific thing(s)? Have you discussed this with them and corrected their incorrect assumptions?
The whole tamole, the conplete package, l think he maybe on the spectrum, there is a huge list of things l like about him, and l would be kicked ooff the forum if l wrote endlessly, but in a nutshell, it feels so great, that l forget about time with this guy.
So, what's the problem?
You like him.
It feels great.
There are lots of things you like about him.
What is the difficulty with that?
You don't want to specify any particular aspect, because it's not just one thing you
like, it's the combination....yes?
But he brings up details that he says are contributing to you liking him......